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I hate being gay

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  • Illuminati wrote:
    Oh God.... Being Gay doesn't mean that you have to wear a skirt! Unless you like to wear one. There are many advantages being gay, we can only tell you several of them, but you have to go out there and discover it for yourself.
    And you know, one of the most important thing I know from being gay is that Gay people are successful! If not, at least they're Independent! So, keep that in mind. When there's black, there's always white.

    yeah.. u're rite.... but sometimes gay people are too emotional. they rather think emotionally without being rational. :roll:
  • yeah.. u're rite.... but sometimes gay people are too emotional. they rather think emotionally without being rational.

    Yup, I do aware of that. As far as i know, gays are more sensitive and intuitive because of our feminine traits. It doesn't mean that we're girly or something, it is just because we have more feminine side that most of the str8 guys. Male tend to be rational while female tend to be intuitive, they follow they heart and emotions. But being sensitive have its own advantages too. We become more aware if the situation changed around us, we're able to 'know' somebody's feeling. Stuff like that.
  • Illuminati wrote:
    yeah.. u're rite.... but sometimes gay people are too emotional. they rather think emotionally without being rational.

    Yup, I do aware of that. As far as i know, gays are more sensitive and intuitive because of our feminine traits. It doesn't mean that we're girly or something, it is just because we have more feminine side that most of the str8 guys. Male tend to be rational while female tend to be intuitive, they follow they heart and emotions. But being sensitive have its own advantages too. We become more aware if the situation changed around us, we're able to 'know' somebody's feeling. Stuff like that.

    hahahha... :lol: your nick remind me to secret society dude.... The think is that, that kind of feeling need to be control, otherwise the positive side of being sensitive or we might say it is intuitive feeling can turn out otherwise. therefore, whatever it is, rational thinking should be dominant in our routine life.

    just my 2 cents.. :)
  • Oh you noticed. Yes, The Bavarian Illuminati. Hehehehehe.

    Yes, I agree, everything in life needs control. Everything have to be (as always) balanced. I think rational and intuitive actions should get along side by side and not overpowering one another. Just like day and night, black and white, yin and yang and so on and so on and so on you name it. Hahahahahaha :lol: :lol:
  • Illuminati wrote:
    Oh you noticed. Yes, The Bavarian Illuminati. Hehehehehe.

    Yes, I agree, everything in life needs control. Everything have to be (as always) balanced. I think rational and intuitive actions should get along side by side and not overpowering one another. Just like day and night, black and white, yin and yang and so on and so on and so on you name it. Hahahahahaha :lol: :lol:

    bavarian huh :roll: "Today the World, Tomorrow the Solar System" your statements shown u're rational...... 8)
  • revi wrote:
    luar biasa .... teman2 semua luar biasa

    yup, gw juga bangga dengan temen2 semua :)
  • hikz.... gw sekarang slalu pengen rasanya run away tp percuma dan sia2 setiap hari liat orang berpasangan normal kayanya cemburu...

    duh .. mo lari kemenonk .... :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
  • Hahahahaha. I don't think that people are always rational. Sometimes they went irrational. Perhaps by being irrational is what they call free-spirited. By following your heart. Let life takes you to surprises that awaits. I think by being like that sometimes, that you can live life to its fullest.
  • Why do I hate so much being Gay?

    1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).
    2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.
    3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)
    4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.
    5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.
    6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.
    7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.
    8. Every Religion rejects me.
    9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

    Silahkan olok-olok saya dan silahkan juga mencari pemecahan masalah ini. Saya hanya curhat saja. Terima kasih!!

    knp ga bunuh diri aja?

    hihihihoihihihi
  • afkaristan wrote:
    revi wrote:
    luar biasa .... teman2 semua luar biasa

    yup, gw juga bangga dengan temen2 semua :)

    senyum2 + angguk2
  • Illuminati wrote:
    Hahahahaha. I don't think that people are always rational. Sometimes they went irrational. Perhaps by being irrational is what they call free-spirited. By following your heart. Let life takes you to surprises that awaits. I think by being like that sometimes, that you can live life to its fullest.

    yeah... being gay or st8 is no different. What the different is our action. Everyone regardless their sexual orientation need to fulfill their dreams. Dream to success in career, life or even love or to be loved. Hence, why should we regret? Why should we look down on ourselves?

    Only we can color our life and makes it joyful. Stop blaming ourself because we are different from other. If we are not success in love, it does not mean world come to the end. Be rational, and always think positively.

    adios.. 8)
  • yeah... being gay or st8 is no different. What the different is our action. Everyone regardless their sexual orientation need to fulfill their dreams. Dream to success in career, life or even love or to be loved. Hence, why should we regret? Why should we look down on ourselves?

    Only we can color our life and makes it joyful. Stop blaming ourself because we are different from other. If we are not success in love, it does not mean world come to the end. Be rational, and always think positively.

    adios..


    Amen to that! Hahahahahahahahaha :lol: :lol: :lol:
  • ameenn...... 8) 8)
  • Why do I hate so much being Gay?

    1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).
    2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.
    3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)
    4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.
    5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.
    6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.
    7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.
    8. Every Religion rejects me.
    9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

    Silahkan olok-olok saya dan silahkan juga mencari pemecahan masalah ini. Saya hanya curhat saja. Terima kasih!!

    Yeah, just hate yourself, drama boy...
  • Why do I hate so much being Gay?

    1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).
    2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.
    3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)
    4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.
    5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.
    6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.
    7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.
    8. Every Religion rejects me.
    9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

    Silahkan olok-olok saya dan silahkan juga mencari pemecahan masalah ini. Saya hanya curhat saja. Terima kasih!!

    gue gak ngolok-ngolok diri lo, karena lo sendiri sebenernya udah ngelakuin hal itu.....
    jangan banyak mengeluh yah teman.....
    lo syukurin aja apa yang udah Tuhan kasih buat lo.....
    nikmat Tuhan tuh banyak.....
    kalo lo banyak bersyukur, ntarnya lo gak bakal ngerasa segitu desperate-nya deh.....
    semangat ya...... :) :) :) :) :)
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