I hate being gay

derangga

Hidup hanya sekali... nikmati dan syukuri

neko87

RECTORY wrote:

The solution is VERY simple :
Embrace who you REALLY are, and learn to enjoy being yourself. Learn to enjoy your life too otherwise it's no point of living if you don't enjoy it.

1st post yg sangat2 bagus :oops:

kl u gak enjoy sama diri u sendiri mo u straight kek, transeksual kek sama aja hahahah hidup bakalan berat juga :oops:

vanvanvan90

ironically,gay means happiness right?

jgn liat sisi negatifnya'lah..banyak sisi positifnya

1. we control population better than any birth pills and condoms
2. we're blessed by combining the objectivity of male gender and subjectivity of female gender
3. you dont have any pregnancy scares
4. children are optional
5. you have an amazing fashion sense
6. your straight female friends feel safe in a gay bar b/c they wont get date-raped
7. your straight female friends ask you which guys are hot or not--which helps in them finding a decent boyfriend
8. you know all the latest gossip
9. For me it made me question my religion. It made me INVESTAGATE before I believed something. It spurred me to think critically about most things.
10. For me it made me open my eyes and try to see past faith based "irrational ideas" and seek truth.
11. For me it made me much more caring of other people and THEIR problems. More willing to empathize.
etc

just be proud of yourself and definitely...you're not alone dude

dodi90

really nice positive thought bro.like your thought.yeah being gay is not always bad. hope your thought will make other desperate gay will be lighten up a bit.

pity_ugly_boy

(pk indonesia aja x ya..Tar pake ingg slh grammar malu2in,LOL)

Buat "iamthecurseofgod"...Gue ngarasa bgt sm yg elu rasain..Bahkan gw uda dari SD ngrasa susah bgt bergaul sm orang2,alhasil gue gada tmn dket,dan mereka cm bs ngolok2 gue(padahal mereka juga lbh banyak kekurangannya..BT deh)..Suggestions dari mereka2 yang gw liat semua ada benernya sih, cuma emank ya sulit bgt buat dilakuin. Mereka smua yang diluar sana tuh gak bisa nrima 100% gt. Mungkin kalo pun ada sedikitttt bgt. Itulah alasannya mengapa sangat sulit menjadi seorang gay. Gue jg sekarang punya pacar cewe, mungkin alesan prtama sih karena gw pgn nyoba brubah, tapi susah euy. Ga bisa. Skrang ortu cewe gue malah uda baek banget sama gue, ms gue kudu mutusin cewe gue tanpa alesan yang jelas. Kan ga mungkin toh. Cm tambah lama emank tambah ngrasa aneh gue sm hubungan kaya gini. Jadi gmna donk???(yang punya saran,share aja,hehehee).
Balik ke "iamthecurseofgod",gpp jadi gay aja kata gue...Asal jgn terlalu exist aja...Jadi gay yang normal2 aja. Jd siapa diri lu yang sebenernya juga enak koq..Hehehe..

Yupz gt doank si...

d4vid4

iamthecurseofgod wrote:

Why do I hate so much being Gay?

1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).
2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.
3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)
4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.
5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.
6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.
7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.
8. Every Religion rejects me.
9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

Silahkan olok-olok saya dan silahkan juga mencari pemecahan masalah ini. Saya hanya curhat saja. Terima kasih!!

1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).

KEEP LOOKING ... I FOUND SEVERAL ... IF I CAN FIND IT ... HOW COME YOU'RE NOT???

2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.

IT HAPPENS NOT ONLY FOR GAY ... EVEN NORMAL PEOPLE ...

3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)

THAT'S YOUR PERSONAL CASE ... BUT YOU'RE THE ONE WHO DECIDED TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT CAN NOT LOVED YOU BACK ...

4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.

I'M OPEN ... ALL OF MY FAMILY, MY COLLEGE FRIENDS, MY BEST FRIENDS ... THEY ALREADY KNOW ... IT'S NOT ABOUT "DECLARATION" BUT IT'S ABOUT BEING HONEST WITH YOUR SELF ... AT FIRST IT WAS SO HARD ... BUT SLOWLY ... THEY WILL ACCEPT YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION ... BECAUSE YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE ...

5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.

AGAIN, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE ... IF YOU CAN'T MAKE THEM SPECIAL IN YOU'RE HEART ... WHY BOTHER?

6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.

TRUE! BUT NOT 100% TRUE ... LIFE IS A LOT TOUGHER WHEN YOU PUT YOURSELF IN THE TROUBLE SITUATION ... BE POSITIVE ....! FOR YOUR INFORMATION: FOR INTROVERT PERSON ... BEING INTROVERT MAKES LIFE A LOT TOUGHER. GET THE POINT?

7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.

DESPERATE HAPPENS NOT ONLY FOR THE GAY ... BOTH MEN AND WOMEN EXPERIENCED IT ... BEFORE I FOUND LOVE ... I ALSO EXPERIENCED IT ... BUT NO DARKNESS IS FOREVER ... THE DAY WHEN THE SUNSHINE COME WILL ARISE

8. Every Religion rejects me.

IF RELIGION REJECTS GAY PEOPLE ... IT WILL NOT BE A RELIGION. BECAUSE THE TRUE AND HONEST RELIGION ... WILL EMBRACE EVERY KIND OF PEOPLE ... GAY, LESBIAN, ETC. THE TRUE RELIGION WILL ALWAYS CARE ...

9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

IF YOU CAN SHOW THEM HOW BIG HEARTED PERSON YOU ARE ... HOW YOU CAN TEACH YOUR KID ON HOW TO APPRECIATE THINGS AND BE GRATEFUL FOR EVERYTHING ... HOW COME IT WILL BE A DISASTER? HAVE YOU TRY IT?

FAITH

Well said, d4vid4.

derangga

sedikit tips Kalau mulai membenci diri sendiri;
Kamu harus mengakui bahwa orang lain, seperti diri anda, memiliki kelemahan dan berlatih untuk mengampuni kelemahan tersebut sampai kamu sadari kelemahan tersebut semakin lama akan semakin berkurang.

tapi coba menerapkan kerap gak berhasil :D

sandy_kam

vanvanvan90 wrote:

ironically,gay means happiness right?

jgn liat sisi negatifnya'lah..banyak sisi positifnya

1. we control population better than any birth pills and condoms
2. we're blessed by combining the objectivity of male gender and subjectivity of female gender
3. you dont have any pregnancy scares
4. children are optional
5. you have an amazing fashion sense
6. your straight female friends feel safe in a gay bar b/c they wont get date-raped
7. your straight female friends ask you which guys are hot or not--which helps in them finding a decent boyfriend
8. you know all the latest gossip
9. For me it made me question my religion. It made me INVESTAGATE before I believed something. It spurred me to think critically about most things.
10. For me it made me open my eyes and try to see past faith based "irrational ideas" and seek truth.
11. For me it made me much more caring of other people and THEIR problems. More willing to empathize.
etc

just be proud of yourself and definitely...you're not alone dude

INI BARU BAGUS.

ha3...every little thing u point out here matches me sooo--- very well...

:P

vanvanvan90

4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.

I'M OPEN ... ALL OF MY FAMILY, MY COLLEGE FRIENDS, MY BEST FRIENDS ... THEY ALREADY KNOW ... IT'S NOT ABOUT "DECLARATION" BUT IT'S ABOUT BEING HONEST WITH YOUR SELF ... AT FIRST IT WAS SO HARD ... BUT SLOWLY ... THEY WILL ACCEPT YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION ... BECAUSE YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE ...

well,it's totally the hardest thing to do...!! klo menurut gw beberapa hari yg lalu,but.... baru aja kemaren lusa,finally! Gw bisa kasih tw klo gw gay ke temen terdeket gw~ Phew... and it's surpisingly really not that hard..dan lega aja gitu,dan temen gw still love me just the same as before....I've felt totally blessed.. 18 tahun telah gw hadapi hidup dengan topeng..sampai gw lupa betapa indahnya dunia...

revi

luar biasa .... teman2 semua luar biasa

cream

iamthecurseofgod wrote:

Why do I hate so much being Gay?

1. I couldn't find friends that accept me who I am. (most of gay friends I've met are a sort of maniac and they flirt with me so badly, no true friends).
2. I must conceal my feelings all the time.
3. I always fall in love with straight guys (being gay it means that I'm looking for men figure, not a fake manly figure just like all gay top have or an overly feminine traits just like gay bot have)
4. If I want to open up about my gayness, I will ruin my life, for me sex orientation is no need to be declared.
5. Many women want me, but so sad I couldn't make them special in my heart.
6. Life is a lot tougher when you're gay.
7. I can success in all thing because I'm gay (can combine male and female minds that led to a success) but in love, I'm a desperate person.
8. Every Religion rejects me.
9. I couldn't have my own child, even if i can adopt one, it's a disaster for the kid. They should get raise in a healthy environment.

Silahkan olok-olok saya dan silahkan juga mencari pemecahan masalah ini. Saya hanya curhat saja. Terima kasih!!

dik..
agama bukan tuhan.
ama boleh menolakmu
yang bicara pemuka agama dan masyarakat

bukan Tuhan yg bicara

Tuhan ingin hadir di hatimu
yg perlu kau lakukan adalah buka haitmu untuk Tuhan
beri Ia tempat.
Dia lebih dr sahabat sejati,.
Dia akan lebih dekat bahkan dr urat nadimu..


mulailah tuk merubah persepsimu tentang NYa
Tuhan menyayangimu.

dont care agama


..berlarilah,.dan jatuhkan dirimu dlm pelukan Tuhan..

u are loved..

justStrobery

hikz....bener juga ya...ini yg terjadi ama gw sekarang slalu pengen rasanya run away tp percuma dan sia2 setiap hari liat orang berpasangan normal kayanya cemburu...huhuhuhuh>.<"(belum punya)tp yaaa mencoba aja untuk menerima kenyataan Y________________Y

Pasrah_pada_NYA

Yang mesti disadari dan dipahami adalah :
Menjadi :
1. Bukan atas permintaan atau pilihan, tapi "takdir" !!!!!
2. Gay bukan "penyakit", apalagi penyakit menular, jadi walau berobat kemanapun gak akan pernah ada obat "penyembuhnya".
3. Secara fisik, Gay itu adalah seperti manusia jenis yang umum lainnya, laki atau perempuan ( yang lesbi ), selama mereka tidak mendemonstrasikan dirinya kepada pihak lain itu bahwa mereka gay, jadi buat bergaul dengan siapapun, baik laki maupun perempuan...ya bisa dan biasa aja dan akan selalu diterima.
4.Seperti kamu bilang juga bahwa banyak Gay yang punya kelebihan sehingga bisa meraih succes dalam bidang tertentu yang belum tentu dicapai oleh kebanyak laki atau perempuan.Nah.....kelebihan itu aja di force terus sehingga bisa menghasil sesuatu yang mungkin berguna bagi orang banyak, maka appreciate pun akan diterima dari mana mana.Inilah yang bisa dijadikan "hiburan" bagi kamu bila dalam bidang cinta, kamu kurang sukses!!
Mungkin itu sekedar sharing dari aku.

Illuminati

Oh God.... Being Gay doesn't mean that you have to wear a skirt! Unless you like to wear one. There are many advantages being gay, we can only tell you several of them, but you have to go out there and discover it for yourself.
And you know, one of the most important thing I know from being gay is that Gay people are successful! If not, at least they're Independent! So, keep that in mind. When there's black, there's always white.