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Kasus Rekaman Lalu Gigih dengan Indra Bekti

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  • Kasian jg IB karirny jd terancam hancur gara2 kasus ini, yg lbh kasian istri sm anakny yg msh kecil... Utk pelajaran buat kita smua, jgn main api klo tdk mau ada asap, klo udh nikah mndingan setia aja sm istriny, jgn selingkuh sm ce/co... Itu lbh baik...
    Smg rmh tangga IB baik2 aja & mdh2an kasus ini bs jd pelajaran buat smuanya... :)
    Support IB :)
  • AnToN_cepz wrote: »
    Rasputin wrote: »
    Bekti seleranya parah, jelek2 gitu

    Setuju ane

    Coba cek ig nya indra bekti.

    Mayoritas yg dia post itu brondong, ada leon dozen, ada naufal samudra, ada siapa itu yg main cinta fitri Andika… andika…"


    Itu bukti seleranya yg enggak jelek.


    Yg jelek itu dua orang yg ngaku2 korban (padahal sekedar cari duit, blum tentu juga udah di apa2in indra bekti. Logikanya klo udah diapa2in dia si korban gk suka, udah pasti inbek kena tonjok. La inbek klemer gitu, masak bisa menggagahi pelatih tinju??)

    Murni blum dapet duit aja mreka itu… atu kekurangan duit…

  • Satu hal lg, kita jgn mmbocorkan rahasia org lain, cukup kita & komunitas kita aja yg tau klo kita suka co... Bs gak bayangin, ktika seseorang d bully sbg gay, dia akan merasa malu sm tmn2ny, blm lg sm keluarganya... Blm lg klo smpai mentalny hancur, kita akan merasa bersalah krena udh mnghancurkan hidup dan nama baik org lain... Cukup tau sm tau aja, jgnlah bongkar2 rahasia org lain... Ingat tmn2, karma akan berlaku, mgkn hri ini kita bs bully/bongkar rahasia org lain, tp ingat suatu saat hal yg sama jg akan kita rasakan, jd jgnlah mnjdi gay yg tdk punya hati, tdk punya perasaan...
    Hati2 jika kita udh tdk punya hati, udh tdk punya perasaan, udh tdk punya rasa belas kasihan, mgkn ada yg salah dgn diri kita, bs2 kita terdeteksi sbg seorang psikopat... Jgn smpe kita mmbunuh org lain krena kita merasa ingin puas menghancurkan khidupan org lain, sperti yg skrg lg heboh soal racun sianida & Jessica yg d prediksi mmpunyai kepribadian ganda atau seorang lesbian...
    Biarlah urusan org lain mau terbuka/tertutup sbg gay, kita tdk usah campuri... Sbg manusia kita cukup berbuat baik, krena hidup ini hanya sebentar tmn, kita lbh baik melakukan amal kebaikan drpd menghancurkan khidupan org lain... Adapun klo kita lg tertimpa musibah, anggaplah itu sbg cobaan supaya kita bs jd manusia yg lbh baik lg...
    Saya sndiri bkn manusia suci, msh banyak dosa, smg ini jd renungan buat saya dan kita smua... Walaupn mgkn kita banyak dosa, tp tetaplah berusaha utk jd manusia yg lbh baik lg, setuju? :)
  • yahh moga moga saja... itu cuman rumor :D
  • numpang jualan cangcimen, ada yg mau beli?
    mijon , akuah juga ada. . .
  • aquaria ada nggak?
  • Kehidupan gay berkeluarga memang berat.

    Ada banyak alasan untuk menyimpang, untuk berbuat salah.

    Tetapi adanya alasan untuk berbuat salah bukan berarti pelakunya tidak boleh disalahkan. Kalau memang salah ya katakan salah, demikian pula sebaliknya.

    Tentang IB, jelas dia salah. Salah karena mengkhianati keluarga, salah karena menjanjikan macam-macam.

    Kalau bagi saya sendiri sih... kebahagiaan anak2 saya nomor satu. Itu menjadi penguat ketika banyak godaan datang melanda.
  • aname2001 wrote: »

    Oops, I've never been with man. How can you say I've done that. And you think every single gay in this world should positioned himself at Bekti's side? That's crazy. Being gay doesn't automatically make you a slut, rite? It's a different code. Bekti is the one who betrayed his wife, but we should support him with his betrayal? Or we should blame Gigih for that? Really?? So, you think Bekti is the victim in this case? Regardless Gigih reported this or not, the victim of his action are still his wife and his kids. There's risk in every action. He should known better. If someone decided to start a family by marrying a girl and still want to live his slutty life with men, that's fine. That's his decision. But please first be open about it to the future wife. Don't deceive her, for you yourself don't wanna be treated like that.
    Just because someone is gay doesn't mean he should defend another gay's stupidity.

    I agree with you in general, but saying that he has been deceiving the wife is like telling someone that bekti is a macho man and straight as an arrow. The only one who is deceiving her is herself.

  • mitzsu wrote: »
    Skrang ada dua kasus diindonesia yg pertama kasus gay nya IB n yg kedua malah kasus lesbiannya jessica.apa skrng lagi tenar yah kasus yg melibatkan LGBT jadi tambah takut buat coming out nih ortu n keluarga yg nonton bberitanya ngehujat gay gitu :(

    Ngapain coming out ke ortu
    Wajib yak?
  • jalani hidup apa adanya. itulah gay kalangan atas atau lesbinya, klo gk beeduit tak akan terekspose.

    saya setuju, lebih baik berbuat kebaikan dari pada buka aib, biar disini aja kasus ib lagi hot2 nya, jngan sampek keluar.

    lebih baik jalani hidup apa adanya, kita diciptakan begini juga ada tujuannya,
    BIAR RUSAK DUNIA,,,! tertawa Iblis

    Yah,, kasihan IB moga baik baik aja...
  • ric_horn wrote: »
    mitzsu wrote: »
    Skrang ada dua kasus diindonesia yg pertama kasus gay nya IB n yg kedua malah kasus lesbiannya jessica.apa skrng lagi tenar yah kasus yg melibatkan LGBT jadi tambah takut buat coming out nih ortu n keluarga yg nonton bberitanya ngehujat gay gitu :(

    Ngapain coming out ke ortu
    Wajib yak?

    Terserah dia sih. Yang CO juga dia.
  • Rasputin wrote: »
    aname2001 wrote: »

    Oops, I've never been with man. How can you say I've done that. And you think every single gay in this world should positioned himself at Bekti's side? That's crazy. Being gay doesn't automatically make you a slut, rite? It's a different code. Bekti is the one who betrayed his wife, but we should support him with his betrayal? Or we should blame Gigih for that? Really?? So, you think Bekti is the victim in this case? Regardless Gigih reported this or not, the victim of his action are still his wife and his kids. There's risk in every action. He should known better. If someone decided to start a family by marrying a girl and still want to live his slutty life with men, that's fine. That's his decision. But please first be open about it to the future wife. Don't deceive her, for you yourself don't wanna be treated like that.
    Just because someone is gay doesn't mean he should defend another gay's stupidity.

    I agree with you in general, but saying that he has been deceiving the wife is like telling someone that bekti is a macho man and straight as an arrow. The only one who is deceiving her is herself.

    You're telling me that his wife has already known from the beginning? Hhhmm, interesting. If that's true, his burden is not as heavy as I thought then.
  • aname2001 wrote: »
    Rasputin wrote: »
    aname2001 wrote: »

    Oops, I've never been with man. How can you say I've done that. And you think every single gay in this world should positioned himself at Bekti's side? That's crazy. Being gay doesn't automatically make you a slut, rite? It's a different code. Bekti is the one who betrayed his wife, but we should support him with his betrayal? Or we should blame Gigih for that? Really?? So, you think Bekti is the victim in this case? Regardless Gigih reported this or not, the victim of his action are still his wife and his kids. There's risk in every action. He should known better. If someone decided to start a family by marrying a girl and still want to live his slutty life with men, that's fine. That's his decision. But please first be open about it to the future wife. Don't deceive her, for you yourself don't wanna be treated like that.
    Just because someone is gay doesn't mean he should defend another gay's stupidity.

    I agree with you in general, but saying that he has been deceiving the wife is like telling someone that bekti is a macho man and straight as an arrow. The only one who is deceiving her is herself.

    You're telling me that his wife has already known from the beginning? Hhhmm, interesting. If that's true, his burden is not as heavy as I thought then.

    istrinya ga tau kok, gaya IB gitu kan cuma tuntutan peran, asli nya d rumah pasti LAKI banget. Sama seperti istrinya RU
  • Iya, sama seperti olga dan ivan gunawan. Dorce juga di luar studio balik jadi lelaki macho.... yea right
  • aname2001 wrote: »
    Rasputin wrote: »
    aname2001 wrote: »

    Oops, I've never been with man. How can you say I've done that. And you think every single gay in this world should positioned himself at Bekti's side? That's crazy. Being gay doesn't automatically make you a slut, rite? It's a different code. Bekti is the one who betrayed his wife, but we should support him with his betrayal? Or we should blame Gigih for that? Really?? So, you think Bekti is the victim in this case? Regardless Gigih reported this or not, the victim of his action are still his wife and his kids. There's risk in every action. He should known better. If someone decided to start a family by marrying a girl and still want to live his slutty life with men, that's fine. That's his decision. But please first be open about it to the future wife. Don't deceive her, for you yourself don't wanna be treated like that.
    Just because someone is gay doesn't mean he should defend another gay's stupidity.

    I agree with you in general, but saying that he has been deceiving the wife is like telling someone that bekti is a macho man and straight as an arrow. The only one who is deceiving her is herself.

    You're telling me that his wife has already known from the beginning? Hhhmm, interesting. If that's true, his burden is not as heavy as I thought then.

    istrinya ga tau kok, gaya IB gitu kan cuma tuntutan peran, asli nya d rumah pasti LAKI banget. Sama seperti istrinya RU

    Inisial RU ini siapa om?
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