My 1st year in gay world experience in Jakarta.

captenastro

@awww5 what? I don't think 3 cups of coffee is a good idea around this time. I'm so going to call your parents to tell them about this. Seriously, I've got to stop thinking that you're a just little boy that I need to babysit, lol.

Kenapa bergadang? kalau si @mllowboy gue ngerti, kan dia kerjanya di rumah sakit. What's your excuse?

awww5

@captenastro well, the coffee tastes so good xD
you know, i've been sleeping for more than 9 hours today! i woke up at 10 pm!
and i'm in a really good mood rite now, that makes me want to troll even longer xD

captenastro

@awww5 ha ha ha, well, I hope you're not planning to do anything special tomorrow, bisa teler besok nih kamu.

awww5

nah, tomorrow's mah free day! all i care about is to have some fun for the rest of this month! maklum, akhir tahun & awal tahun nggak dapet liburan! baru dapet sekarang! xD

mllowboy

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mllowboy

@awww5 dan @captenastro

thx buat empatinya. Tentu pengalaman itu bukan pengalaman menyenangkan. Saat itu sakit tapi gue belajar banyak hal.

Banyak cinta yang datang dalam hidup gue, mungkin hanya cinta yang satu ini gue belum beruntung aja.

Kalian bertengkar sepanjang subuh rupanya? Hahaha

lucu ya kita beda umur, beda tempat, beda kisah tapi bisa ngobrol asyik gini.

Ambigu

Nyimak dan menelaah...

Emm begitu ya ternyata...

LittlePigeon

captenastro wrote:

@mllowboy Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry things haven't work out for you too, but secretly gue rada senang/lega ada teman sepenanggungan. Kalau boleh jujur, kemarin2 sebelum sharing disini, gue tuh dah kepikiran consen cari cewek aja, soalnya bener2 kaget sama apa yg gue temui tahun kemarin. Tapi abis cerita disini dan ngobrol2 disini, it seems like there are wonderful people that are thinking the same thing.

Gue liat lu sangat in touch with your emotion, and that's pretty cool. I wish I was like that. My last gf said that I was too a physical being than emotional being, and my excuse was, what do you expect? I'm a guy! So I think any guy/girl would be so lucky to have you!

I know it hurts when people come and go in your life, tapi percaya deh, semuanya pasti bikin lu tambah dewasa and who knows, maybe it's the way life trying to shape you and get you ready for the man of your dream!

As for me, mungkin gue perlu kenal lebih banyak gay people kali yah, mungkin kemarin2 cuma sial aja kali. Buktinya ada elu dan temen2 yg lain yg enggak mengumbar kata2 cinta dan sayang sembarangan. Ajarin donk, cara ketemu ama orang and cara kenalnya? ceritanya kan lu lebih berpengalaman nih, pls sensei? lol

ummmmm
boleh ikutan nimbrung? hehehehe
gay life emang rumit, dan kadang bikin pusing. so, tergantung kitanya aja ngadepinnya.

klo emang niat awalnya cuma ONS ya anggep angin lalu aja kata2 sayang,cinta, etc etc. percaya deh, itu cuma bumbu biar ML nya makin hottt.

Klo emang niatnya mo cari LTR, tetep aja kudu hati2. coz bejibun orang yg demen bilang sayang n cinta padahal cupa lip service doang, kagak dari hati.

Berharap hubungan cowo-cowo lebih mudah dan sederhana dibandingkan cowo-cewe? hmmm, boleh2 saja. tapi janagn terlalu optimis. gw pernah mempunyai harapan itu. Tapi itu 5-6 tahun yang lalu. hahaha

anyway, punya banyak temen itu penting n ga susah2 banget kok nyarinya. cuma, klo sahabat emang susah pwoll. Dari banyak binan yg gw kenal, gw punya beberapa temen deket, lumayan deket, teman tapi mesum (psstttt gw juga dapet selingkuhan), tapi kayaknya lom dapet sahabat. sobat gw malah temen Sr8 gw pas kuliah dulu.

satu hal, kayaknya ama cowo tuh lebih "wow" dibanding ama cewe.
hahahaha

Loveblue

captenastro wrote:

@loveblue you are too kind, (mau tambahin thank you disini takut diprotes lagi nih, ha ha ha)

Nih lagi coba iseng2 nulis cerita juga, kayanya kebanyakan hasil karya disini itu adalah dari sisi pandang cowok yang gay, jadinya kadang gue suka enggak bisa relate to story. Cuma yah itu tadi, bahasanya donk kecampur2, kemarin ada yg bilang bikin lieur, ha ha ha. That's my yesterday's new word, lol

ga ah. Biasa aja. Masa gitu aja too kind -_________-"

ya iya donk -______-" ini kan memang forum gay. #duar deh. Hahahahaha! Lieur itu keknya bahasa sunda yah. Hahahahaha!

denipermana_07

ngemeng apa sih...kagak jelas...homo kalau ngomong memangnya dicampur ya antara bahasa kamerun dan zimbabwe....
dasar homo, penuh gayahehehehe

LittlePigeon

denipermana_07 wrote:

ngemeng apa sih...kagak jelas...homo kalau ngomong memangnya dicampur ya antara bahasa kamerun dan zimbabwe....
dasar homo, penuh gayahehehehe

@ TS, jgn jiper dengar komen yg kayak gini.
dimanapun anda berada, selalu ada tokoh antagonis, dunia nyata, dunia maya, dunia cowo, dunia normal, sebutannya juga macem2, ada yg nyebut setan, iblis, etc etc. Tapi satu yg jelas, hidup ga bakal sempurna tanpa org2 kayak gini.

anyway, Bf mah sekarang yg model kayak gini udah jauh berkurang. hehehe

awww5

denipermana_07 wrote:

ngemeng apa sih...kagak jelas...homo kalau ngomong memangnya dicampur ya antara bahasa kamerun dan zimbabwe....
dasar homo, penuh gayahehehehe

situ nggak pernah sekolah ya? pantesan bodoh banget! we're using english, dunderhead!
dari gaya ngomong lo, kayak orang nggak berpendidikan! situ tukang becak ya? pantesan gaya ngomong lo kyk tukang becak

captenastro

@LittlePigeon

Thanks buat comment and supportnya. Kalo ngadepin jenis2 denipermana itu mah gue malah lebih pede, soalnya selain most of the time i don't really understand what he means, juga kan dah jelas kaga perlu ditanggepin atau dibahas. I guess yg namanya forum umum yang begini lah, ada aja yg jenis ini, ha ha ha

Btw, keliatannya lu lebih berpengalaman nih, would love to hear more from you. I know it sounds silly, but I still don't know what I want.

So far, kalo gue summarized,

With girls, they're really delicate and caring, bikin gue jadi jadi sayang and pengen ngejagain. They could be independent but emotionally dependent (even becoming very needy during certain days of the month, lol). They love attention (too much sometimes), and I like to provide that sometimes, although they'd say it's not enough. They think and operate differently. I'm always amazed with their attention to details in so many things and their consideration to other people's feeling. Honestly, in that sense they are amazing! Sex is good too, although for me, it's not very often that they are in the same mood. I think they get more satisfaction from having conversation than having sex, sedangkan gue, let's just say I prefer the later, ha ha ha..

Dengan cowok itu so far nih dari pengalaman gue yg singkat kemarin, mereka sangat "to the point", which I love. Women are slightly more encrypted when they say things. The too early "I love you" is what I wasn't sure whether that's generally what happens or not. Sex, like I said, it was amazing, I think you guys really know what you're doing, mungkin karena sama2 tahu mana yang enak mana yg engak.

But that's it really. I think I could use some more information or comment about this. Please help.

captenastro

@awww5
Good morning! ha ha ha, tuh kan, kemarin begadang sih jadinya sekarang bad mood gitu deh. Udah jangan ditanggepin yah tuh orang, entar malah ribut and bikin cape sendiri, buang2 energi.

Pikir2, salah gue juga kali yah, gue kemarin lagi mood nulis trus kaga mau repot tulis pake indo semuanya, jadi kesannya nyombong and bergaya. Trus abis gue tahu pada ngerti, gue jadi malah keenakan nulis pake bahasa campur2.

Mo komitmen nulis pake bahasa Indo kedepannya, takut kelepasan lagi, ini weekend sih ngak masalah, cuma kalo hari kerja, otak biasanya dah penuh and drained out.

awww5

@captenastro huh, i got carried away --" i'm a short tempered guy afterall
haha gw sih pengen ngasah bahasa inggris gw haha, udah lama nggak kepake soalnya xD
itu mah HAM, you can write anything in any language as long as it's not flaming others