Out of the closet?

biteme

Ello..

Just wondering.. How many of you guys are out of the closet??

If you are (out of the closet), how did you do it? was there lots of drama involved? crying, screaming...

and how did your parents, relatives, friends handle the situation when you told them you are gay/bi??

abxis

biteme wrote:

Ello..

Just wondering.. How many of you guys are out of the closet??

If you are (out of the closet), how did you do it? was there lots of drama involved? crying, screaming...

and how did your parents, relatives, friends handle the situation when you told them you are gay/bi??

wekekke dulu ada yg bikin stay in closed sekrng out off closet hihihi.....

tico

Well, only my friends know who the real me...sometimes they told to change myself and be normal, but i always tell them that i m being like this because i choose to be like this and the reason why i choose to be lik this is because i feel free and comfortable being like this...

There was no crying or screaming when i told my friends bout the real me, but i did feel scared that they would ignore me after they knew it. I was so glad when my friend said that im still their friend...

Naka

Hhhmmm...

My parents dont know if i am gay, as far as i think. Maybe they are just curious or wonderng.

Some of my friends know if i am gay, because i told them or they are also gay like me.

Other people, of course they dont know. I am still in the closet.

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Naka /\/

abxis

Naka wrote:

Hhhmmm...

My parents dont know if i am gay, as far as i think. Maybe they are just curious or wonderng.

Some of my friends know if i am gay, because i told them or they are also gay like me.

Other people, of course they dont know. I am still in the closet.

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Naka /\/

emmmm abx termasuk yg other people kan tapi tauk tuh kalo naka plu wekekkeke

babylon

ada banyak lemarinya
ada yang sudah open
ada yang masih tertutup
bergantung situasi dan kondisi

biteme

Naka wrote:

Hhhmmm...

My parents dont know if i am gay, as far as i think. Maybe they are just curious or wonderng.

Some of my friends know if i am gay, because i told them or they are also gay like me.

Other people, of course they dont know. I am still in the closet.

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Naka /\/

Whats the title of the blog entry? .. even better, could u post the link to it?

satria

biteme wrote:

Naka wrote:

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Whats the title of the blog entry? .. even better, could u post the link to it?

buka jurusan blog trs liat pengarangnya .... cepet dan gampank kok

B3t3ngboy

abxis wrote:

Naka wrote:

Hhhmmm...

My parents dont know if i am gay, as far as i think. Maybe they are just curious or wonderng.

Some of my friends know if i am gay, because i told them or they are also gay like me.

Other people, of course they dont know. I am still in the closet.

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Naka /\/

emmmm abx termasuk yg other people kan tapi tauk tuh kalo naka plu wekekkeke

kamu kan termasuk yg sama sama gay, gimana sih?
Kalo aku ada rencana out of closet (dah gak tahan baunya), tapi belum siap sekarang (pintunya dikunci dari luar. Hayo siapa yang iseng!!!). Tapi kemaren nyaris nyaris nyaris ketahuan dua kali.
Yg pertama waktu gw cerita tentang temen2 dr fs ku, mamiku tanya temen cewek apa cowok, aku jawab cowok. Mamiku bilang temenmu cowok semua, jangan jangan kamu gay. Bayangkan perasaanku waktu itu. Ga habis akal, gw bilang. Kalo di net, yg cewek tu banyak yg matre lah, ganjen, genit lah, bla bla bla lah. Pokoke lah
Truz yg kedua. Didepan toko ku dibuka stand roti. Whuii, yg jaga, perfect banget. Cakep, tinggi, gagah, macho. Gw ampe terbengong bengong, melototin dia sampe lamaaa bgt, ga sadar sih. Ternyata waktu gw melototin dia, mami dan karyawan2 gw liatin gw. Duuh, sial bgt. Sehari dua kejadian sekaligus. *Jedug jedugin kepala ke tembok*

Naka

biteme wrote:

Whats the title of the blog entry? .. even better, could u post the link to it?

You can click the link on my signature. It's called

Visit: My BoyzBlog - OCEHAN NAKA

Unfortunately, it is in Bahasa Indonesia. I hope you can understand.

Thank you.

Naka /\/

[Deleted User]

hmmmmmm.... capek juga kalo maw cerita lagi..
gw pernah kirim2 topik bout this..
gw dah "out of the closet" 2 years ago..
to my friends and my family as well..
pertama mereka pasti shock.. terus,, tinggal gimana kita aja menjelaskan sama mereka kalo sebenarnya kita tuh gak jauh beda ma orang2 hetero.. yang buat kita beda tuh cman orientasi-nya aja.. beri mereka penjelasan n pengertian..
kenapa gw begini..?
sejak kapan gw begini...?
apa gw happy ato nggak..?
punya perasaan nggak enak ato tertekan..? (hal2 itu juga yang mungkin mereka akan tanya ke lo waktu lu ngaku) pertanyaan2 itu selalu muncul..
terus,, sekarang dah biasa2 aja tuh mereka..
tapi semua butuh kesiapan yang bener2 matap!!! hahaha..
n kita harus sabar n bisa nerima semua resiko2 yang mungkin muncul...
well,, kebetulan ortu gw, orangnya terbuka.. jadiii.. pelan2 mereka juga bisa ngertiin gw.. tapi ya perlu kesabaran juga dari gw tuk secara pelan2 mencari celah,, memberikan penjelasan serta pengertian sama mereka kalo gw seperti ya karena gw seperti ini.. gw happy dengan keadaan gw..
terus,, sekarang,, gak ada yang jauh berbeda sama hidup gw.. gw tidak dikucilkan ato diperlakukan berbeda.. semua sama2 aja perlakuan mereka sama gw baik dari sebelum ataupun sekarang sudah coming out..
kalo ada yang maw ditanya lagi.. reply aja.. sebisa mungkin gw jawab.. hehehehe.. oh ya.. hampir semua teman2kuw.. mereka dah pada open juga lhooow.. n apa yang mereka alamin.. gak beda jauh ma gw,,

biteme wrote:

Ello..

Just wondering.. How many of you guys are out of the closet??

If you are (out of the closet), how did you do it? was there lots of drama involved? crying, screaming...

and how did your parents, relatives, friends handle the situation when you told them you are gay/bi??

peki

B3t3ngboy wrote:

abxis wrote:

Naka wrote:

Hhhmmm...

My parents dont know if i am gay, as far as i think. Maybe they are just curious or wonderng.

Some of my friends know if i am gay, because i told them or they are also gay like me.

Other people, of course they dont know. I am still in the closet.

But, I have an interesting story. I think my maid know if I am gay!
How come? Just Read my blog at Ocehan Naka.

Naka /\/

emmmm abx termasuk yg other people kan tapi tauk tuh kalo naka plu wekekkeke

kamu kan termasuk yg sama sama gay, gimana sih?
Kalo aku ada rencana out of closet (dah gak tahan baunya), tapi belum siap sekarang (pintunya dikunci dari luar. Hayo siapa yang iseng!!!). Tapi kemaren nyaris nyaris nyaris ketahuan dua kali.
Yg pertama waktu gw cerita tentang temen2 dr fs ku, mamiku tanya temen cewek apa cowok, aku jawab cowok. Mamiku bilang temenmu cowok semua, jangan jangan kamu gay. Bayangkan perasaanku waktu itu. Ga habis akal, gw bilang. Kalo di net, yg cewek tu banyak yg matre lah, ganjen, genit lah, bla bla bla lah. Pokoke lah
Truz yg kedua. Didepan toko ku dibuka stand roti. Whuii, yg jaga, perfect banget. Cakep, tinggi, gagah, macho. Gw ampe terbengong bengong, melototin dia sampe lamaaa bgt, ga sadar sih. Ternyata waktu gw melototin dia, mami dan karyawan2 gw liatin gw. Duuh, sial bgt. Sehari dua kejadian sekaligus. *Jedug jedugin kepala ke tembok*

lagi sial kali aja..hehehehe tapi kalo liatin org jgn sampe di melototin lah, tentu aja mengundang kecurigaan... natural aja. heueheeueheue

Dukun Ilmu Hitam

babylon wrote:

ada banyak lemarinya
ada yang sudah open
ada yang masih tertutup
bergantung situasi dan kondisi

lemari ekke kekunci.. dan kuncinya udah ilang....

Dukun Ilmu Hitam

menurut pengalaman mbah nih yee.. kalo mau out of closet.. pastiin loe bener bener dah mapan... dah mau out of closet tapi masih 'netek' ama ortu gimana tuh...?

dalam arti loe kudu punya jabatan atau duit banyak... menurut pengalaman mbah nih sepanjang perjalanan hidup mbah kalo loe kaya duit banyak... ortu atau keluarga loe... akan silau !!!... kasih mereka duit, keluarga dan sanak saudara loe bantu deh...

kalo loe.. out of closet tapi kagak punya apa apa.. yah siap siap aja dikucilkan dari keluarga..

banyak temen mbah... dulunya di kucilkan dr keluarga karena ketauan.. jadi bhenzes... mereka berjuang setelah mapan... pulang kampung ketemu sanak keluarga.. umpanin mereka duit... eha malah disanjung sanjung sekarang... yah.. itulah manusia... semua serba materi...

suka enggak suka ama pendapat mbah.. yah itulah keyataan yang ada....

pilatme

Dukun Ilmu Hitam wrote:

menurut pengalaman mbah nih yee.. kalo mau out of closet.. pastiin loe bener bener dah mapan... dah mau out of closet tapi masih 'netek' ama ortu gimana tuh...?

dalam arti loe kudu punya jabatan atau duit banyak... menurut pengalaman mbah nih sepanjang perjalanan hidup mbah kalo loe kaya duit banyak... ortu atau keluarga loe... akan silau !!!... kasih mereka duit, keluarga dan sanak saudara loe bantu deh...

kalo loe.. out of closet tapi kagak punya apa apa.. yah siap siap aja dikucilkan dari keluarga..

banyak temen mbah... dulunya di kucilkan dr keluarga karena ketauan.. jadi bhenzes... mereka berjuang setelah mapan... pulang kampung ketemu sanak keluarga.. umpanin mereka duit... eha malah disanjung sanjung sekarang... yah.. itulah manusia... semua serba materi...

suka enggak suka ama pendapat mbah.. yah itulah keyataan yang ada....

aku setuju mbah.................. karena setuju pendapatnya mbah........hadiahnya apa ya mbah ?

Dukun Ilmu Hitam

pilatme wrote:

Dukun Ilmu Hitam wrote:

menurut pengalaman mbah nih yee.. kalo mau out of closet.. pastiin loe bener bener dah mapan... dah mau out of closet tapi masih 'netek' ama ortu gimana tuh...?

dalam arti loe kudu punya jabatan atau duit banyak... menurut pengalaman mbah nih sepanjang perjalanan hidup mbah kalo loe kaya duit banyak... ortu atau keluarga loe... akan silau !!!... kasih mereka duit, keluarga dan sanak saudara loe bantu deh...

kalo loe.. out of closet tapi kagak punya apa apa.. yah siap siap aja dikucilkan dari keluarga..

banyak temen mbah... dulunya di kucilkan dr keluarga karena ketauan.. jadi bhenzes... mereka berjuang setelah mapan... pulang kampung ketemu sanak keluarga.. umpanin mereka duit... eha malah disanjung sanjung sekarang... yah.. itulah manusia... semua serba materi...

suka enggak suka ama pendapat mbah.. yah itulah keyataan yang ada....

aku setuju mbah.................. karena setuju pendapatnya mbah........hadiahnya apa ya mbah ?

hadiahnya kamu dapet minyak pelet limited edition... LOL