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Play It Straight

pedro2912pedro2912
edited April 2005 in BoyzLove
hmmm... is it that hard???
and dhidhie you said u even feel sick if ur buddies talk about chicks...hmm... must be tough for u, isn't it? and from your tone, sounds like you have to pretend to be totally 2 different personalities... you have to mask the real u inside when you hang out with ur friends... can u really do that, I mean how long or until when you can keep doing that??
do u enjoy ur friendship... or just use it as a disguise so people out there won't realize who are the real you? don't u consider to, I dunno maybe find more tolerant/understanding/open-minded friends??
sory asking alot... I'm just deadly curious...

good luck with ur effort anyway, en take care
dhidhie wrote:
pedro2912 wrote:
play it straight
gw pengen nanya ke teman2 nih gimana sih kalo buat elo2 yang belom out, terus maen sama teman2 yang straight..

ketika mereka ngomongin cw seksi yang baru lewat
ketika mereka ngomongin bola
ketika mereka meludah sembarangan
dan ketika-ketika yang lainnya?

how'd you react when you are gay, but on the other hand, your friends are straight?

Gw ngerasa agak 'mual' klo temen gw ngomongin cw seksi, but biasanya gw kasih tanggapan kaya' gini : Itu ngga' seberapa kalo dibandingin ama Christina Aguillira. Jadi ngapain ngomongin tuh cewe'. Biasanya gw lalu berusaha ngalihin topik pembicaraan yang bersifat "netral".

Kalo ngomongin bola, gw mesti agak sedikit ati-ati. I hate football very much, but I adore the player so much (apalagi yang di Liga Italia ato Inggris).Jadi biasanya gw ngomong gini ama mereka : Aku suka ama Michael Owen, Christian Rionaldo, dll. They are very good (cuma dalam ati gw pingin ketawa soalnya yang gw maksud "very good" must be very different ama yang mereka pikirkan). Gw ngga' terlalu masalah kalo ngomongin football player, cuma sekali waktu kadang agak kepleset ngomong yang agak 'gay' dikit. Untuk yang kaya' gini gw udah punya antisipasinya, and usually it works well.

Kalo punya temen yang agak "jorky" emang repot. Apalagi kalo kebiasaannnya memalukan, kaya' meludah sembarangan. Untungnya gw ngga' punya temen nyang kaya' gini.

Anyway, bergaul sama orang str8 emang ngga' mudah. Tapi lebih sulit lagi bergaul ama orang yang homophobia, dan yang paling sulit bergaul ama gay yang berpura-pura jadi str8 dan hobinya suka melecehkan sesama gay.
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  • R1CR1C
    so... how about you matt???
    tell me...

    :roll:
  • geogeo
    Kalo aku sih tergantung temenku yang mana, kalo ama temen yang ga tau kalo aku gay,

    aku biasanya ngikut arus. Kalo ama temen yang tau kalo aku gay, malah kebalikan loh,

    dia bilang ada cewek seksi aku balas ada cowok keren, kalo dia ngomongin bola

    aku balas ngomongin pemain bolanya, kalo dia meludah sembarangan ya....

    aku senyum2 sendiri kaya' orang tolol.........
  • silver285silver285
    pedro2912 wrote:
    1. ketika mereka ngomongin cw seksi yang baru lewat
    2. ketika mereka ngomongin bola
    3. ketika mereka meludah sembarangan
    4. dan ketika-ketika yang lainnya?

    how'd you react when you are gay, but on the other hand, your friends are straight?
    ya gw jawab sesuai yg ada di pikiran gw...
    1. kalo emang menurut gw seksi, ya gw bilang seksi, kan selera orang beda2.....
    2. ga suka bola wee2.gif
    3. cuek aja.....asal ga ngeludah ke gw lol1.gif
    4. disesuaikan situasi kondisi ^_^
  • MattMatt
    hehehe it's funny...
    I always thought that 99% guys out there love soccer
    so sometimes I feel weird coz. i don't really like sitting on a couch and watching 22 people kicking one ball... why don't they give them 22 balls so everyone's hapy,LOL.
    but seems that's not the case..is it??
  • dhidhiedhidhie
    Matt wrote:
    hmmm... is it that hard???
    and dhidhie you said u even feel sick if ur buddies talk about chicks...hmm... must be tough for u, isn't it? and from your tone, sounds like you have to pretend to be totally 2 different personalities... you have to mask the real u inside when you hang out with ur friends... can u really do that, I mean how long or until when you can keep doing that??
    do u enjoy ur friendship... or just use it as a disguise so people out there won't realize who are the real you? don't u consider to, I dunno maybe find more tolerant/understanding/open-minded friends??
    sory asking alot... I'm just deadly curious...

    good luck with ur effort anyway, en take care
    [/quote]

    Actually I never tried to have a lot of friend because I knew excatly how they will react about homosexuality. Di lingkungan gw, meskipun beberapa dari mereka highly educated, they still hold their conservatives perspectives about homosexuality, especially persons who are very strictly religious.. Gw selalu menghindari bergaul terlalu dekat secara emosional dengan siapapun. The only relation I have with them is a professional relation. Tapi kadang-kadang memang ngga' bisa dihindari kalo topik pembicaraan beralih. Sometimes I just said to them to change the topic in our discussion, and they felt sorry for that because they thought that I am a "strict religious person" ( I feel sorry for them..he..he...he..). I choose to live as a solitaire, despite it's very hard for me (I have done this for years, I am still alive now, and probably I will do this for the rest of my life). It's better to have nobody, and I don't lose them, rather than having them but I lose it in a painful way.
  • MattMatt
    alone... without no one...
    enjoying the loneliness...
    cruising alone in this lonely world
    walking alone among the crowds full with strangers
    thinking alone in this seemed-close but far-away realm
    to realize that at the end, we are all alone ...

    ya.. i see your point that by being alone you'll never lose no one.
    and i dunno to certain extent I see being solitaire require lots of strength and it automatically makes you stronger and tougher.
    but.. but... that must be hard, isn it?
    a solitaire life....

    dhidhie wrote:
    Matt wrote:
    hmmm... is it that hard???
    and dhidhie you said u even feel sick if ur buddies talk about chicks...hmm... must be tough for u, isn't it? and from your tone, sounds like you have to pretend to be totally 2 different personalities... you have to mask the real u inside when you hang out with ur friends... can u really do that, I mean how long or until when you can keep doing that??
    do u enjoy ur friendship... or just use it as a disguise so people out there won't realize who are the real you? don't u consider to, I dunno maybe find more tolerant/understanding/open-minded friends??
    sory asking alot... I'm just deadly curious...

    good luck with ur effort anyway, en take care

    Actually I never tried to have a lot of friend because I knew excatly how they will react about homosexuality. Di lingkungan gw, meskipun beberapa dari mereka highly educated, they still hold their conservatives perspectives about homosexuality, especially persons who are very strictly religious.. Gw selalu menghindari bergaul terlalu dekat secara emosional dengan siapapun. The only relation I have with them is a professional relation. Tapi kadang-kadang memang ngga' bisa dihindari kalo topik pembicaraan beralih. Sometimes I just said to them to change the topic in our discussion, and they felt sorry for that because they thought that I am a "strict religious person" ( I feel sorry for them..he..he...he..). I choose to live as a solitaire, despite it's very hard for me (I have done this for years, I am still alive now, and probably I will do this for the rest of my life). It's better to have nobody, and I don't lose them, rather than having them but I lose it in a painful way.[/quote]
  • dhidhiedhidhie
    Matt wrote:
    alone... without no one...
    enjoying the loneliness...
    cruising alone in this lonely world
    walking alone among the crowds full with strangers
    thinking alone in this seemed-close but far-away realm
    to realize that at the end, we are all alone ...

    ya.. i see your point that by being alone you'll never lose no one.
    and i dunno to certain extent I see being solitaire require lots of strength and it automatically makes you stronger and tougher.
    but.. but... that must be hard, isn it?
    a solitaire life....

    I am not a strong person, and never pretended to be strong. Sometimes I feel that the burden of life is so hard for me and I can't stand for it. Once I walk alone at the beach when the sun set, I felt that someday all the burden will disappear like the sun went away to the horizon. At night, when I see the stars, I feel that somewhere amongs the star, there is someone special for me. Living in solitude give me enough time to have conversation with my heart, with my life. And when I looked back at my past, I realized that I have experienced many things, and I can made it. So, there shall be no worry about the future, coz it never come sooner or later than it should be.
  • pedro2912pedro2912
    hmm, interesting..
    bagi gw sendiri adalah sikap kita dalam menghadapi hidup ini..
    well, mungkin agak OOT sih, tapi yg gw mau bilang adalah yang terpenting kita enjoy dengan apa yang kita lakukan

    ada yang suka menyendiri
    ada tetep bergaul
    ada juga yang kadang lebih suka sendiri kadang suka ramean

    semuanya sama

    well, gw sendiri saat ini pun lebih memilih sendiri dulu, dalam artian, gw menjadi orang yang lebih banyak berpikir daripada mengucapkan..dulu gw orang yang cukup periang, ramah, dan supel..namun sekarang gw lebih introvert..gw ga tahu kenapa, tapi yang jelas gw fine2 aja dengan perubahan sikap gw..

    well, balik ke topik lagi ya..
    kalo gw sih bisa play it straight dengan baik (kecuali soal bola dan juga meludah sembarangan ya...)
    dan gw juga enjoy juga kok kalonlagi ngomong cw, karena gw juga suka dengan mahkluk yang namanya cw ini..

    hehehe..
    have a nice weekend, people ;)
  • R1CR1C
    pedro2912 wrote:
    hmm, interesting..
    bagi gw sendiri adalah sikap kita dalam menghadapi hidup ini..
    well, mungkin agak OOT sih, tapi yg gw mau bilang adalah yang terpenting kita enjoy dengan apa yang kita lakukan

    ada yang suka menyendiri
    ada tetep bergaul
    ada juga yang kadang lebih suka sendiri kadang suka ramean

    semuanya sama

    semuanya ada di diri ric... hehe, suka menyendiri, kadang suka ramean,
    suka ngomong bola, :mrgreen: *apa yang aneh dengan bola???*
    suka ngomong cewek ...
    tapi meludah ???? hmmm sukanya ke tissue ajah... :wink:
    pedro2912 wrote:
    well, gw sendiri saat ini pun lebih memilih sendiri dulu, dalam artian, gw menjadi orang yang lebih banyak berpikir daripada mengucapkan..dulu gw orang yang cukup periang, ramah, dan supel..namun sekarang gw lebih introvert..gw ga tahu kenapa, tapi yang jelas gw fine2 aja dengan perubahan sikap gw..

    well, balik ke topik lagi ya..
    kalo gw sih bisa play it straight dengan baik (kecuali soal bola dan juga meludah sembarangan ya...)
    dan gw juga enjoy juga kok kalonlagi ngomong cw, karena gw juga suka dengan mahkluk yang namanya cw ini..

    hehehe..
    have a nice weekend, people ;)

    keliatan kok pedro supel :D
    c you
  • CinTaPuCCiNoCinTaPuCCiNo
    KaLo RaKa :
    1. topik cewek, senang2x Aja NgeBahasnya (soalNya Raka juga masiH demen ama cewe yg ImuT)
    2. boLa??? RaKa bisa Begadang Sama temen2 Yang StraigHt KaLo NungguiN PertandinGan PiaLa Dunia
    3. Nah KAlo soaL Meludah SembarangaN (maksudnya apa Sih), Biasanya NgeLudah Biasa Aja, cuman GAk PAke suara2x Aneh Dan FronTaL di depaN oranG BanyaK.

    Berteman Dengan Straight Asik2 aja LAh, CumaN BingunG Aja KAlo lagi pada Liat Bokep Atau Mandi BAreng ... hmmm :roll:
  • segawonsegawon
    Hmzzz...Aku juga heran nih?? ada apa dengan bola??????? padahal paling suka liat bola...sering begadang sampe malem...ke stadion aja pernah..walau cuma dukung tim lokal..namanya juga masih kedaerahan :)
  • RAINRAIN
    Apakah maksud si pembuat topik (mbuh lali jeneng'e...), seseorang yang gay selalu diidentikan dengan hal-hal berorientasi kearah feminim dan indah !??! RAIN seh enjoy-enjoy aja ama yang kasar-kasar malah bisa buat kamuflase ... pblow.gif
    @Dhiedhie : Yeap, i am bottom blobtongue.gif
  • dhidhiedhidhie
    RAIN wrote:
    Apakah maksud si pembuat topik (mbuh lali jeneng'e...), seseorang yang gay selalu diidentikan dengan hal-hal berorientasi kearah feminim dan indah !??! RAIN seh enjoy-enjoy aja ama yang kasar-kasar malah bisa buat kamuflase ... pblow.gif
    @Dhiedhie : Yeap, i am bottom blobtongue.gif

    Berarti berlaku hukum kebalikan dong. Gay yang somewhat "macho-looking" bisa jadi sangat lembut di ranjang, dan yang "feminine-looking" lebih berani dalam "menodongkan pedang".
  • demahenddemahend
    dhidhie wrote:
    Berarti berlaku hukum kebalikan dong. Gay yang somewhat "macho-looking" bisa jadi sangat lembut di ranjang, dan yang "feminine-looking" lebih berani dalam "menodongkan pedang".

    Sterotype banget nih topic…enggak ada beda cowok gay sama straight…bedanya cuma yang satu suka cowok and yang lain suka cewek…kalau jelas bedanya kenapa teman atau keluarga kita kagak ada yang tahu kalau kita gay (bagi yang masih di kloset)…berdasarkan pengalaman gue sih cowok yang kelihatannya kalem bisa galak lho ML nya demikian juga sebaliknya cowok yang kelihatannya angker bisa lembut kayak kucing…meong…meong…enggak kuat gue…awwwwwwwwwww :oops:
  • dhidhiedhidhie
    demahend wrote:
    dhidhie wrote:
    Berarti berlaku hukum kebalikan dong. Gay yang somewhat "macho-looking" bisa jadi sangat lembut di ranjang, dan yang "feminine-looking" lebih berani dalam "menodongkan pedang".

    Sterotype banget nih topic…enggak ada beda cowok gay sama straight…bedanya cuma yang satu suka cowok and yang lain suka cewek…kalau jelas bedanya kenapa teman atau keluarga kita kagak ada yang tahu kalau kita gay (bagi yang masih di kloset)…berdasarkan pengalaman gue sih cowok yang kelihatannya kalem bisa galak lho ML nya demikian juga sebaliknya cowok yang kelihatannya angker bisa lembut kayak kucing…meong…meong…enggak kuat gue…awwwwwwwwwww :oops:

    So never underestimate "the sissy" ones, dan don't overlook at the "macho" guys.
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