Gw ternyata ...........!!

rais

dhidhie wrote:

demahend wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

Ya ini kok kayak pelajaran waktu gue sekolah minggu dulu seh...jangan-jangan Dhidhie calon pendeta...dosa enggak seh ML sama calon pendeta...becanda lho jangan marah ya Dhie...awwwwwwww :oops:

Engaakk..laah. Nyang penting sebelum melakukan berdoa dulu biar lancar segala urusannya dan ngga' ada onderdil yang ngadat di tengah jalan. Setelah selesai berdoa lagi bahwa segalanya telah berjalan lancar sesuai dengan keinginan kita dan ucapan terima kasih atas segala nikmat yang telah kita nikmati. Tidak lupa memohon agar di masa mendatang selalu diberi jalan terang. (Gw copy and paste tulisan ini dari buku "Petunjuk Doa Harian" jadi klo ada nyang salah, jangan complain ke gw tapi ke penulisnya...he...he..he)

Gue nggak komplain kok.... aku juga baca tuh di buku renungan harianku...... bedanya aku sambil ngopi n denger musik rohani.

dhidhie

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

demahend wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

Ya ini kok kayak pelajaran waktu gue sekolah minggu dulu seh...jangan-jangan Dhidhie calon pendeta...dosa enggak seh ML sama calon pendeta...becanda lho jangan marah ya Dhie...awwwwwwww :oops:

Engaakk..laah. Nyang penting sebelum melakukan berdoa dulu biar lancar segala urusannya dan ngga' ada onderdil yang ngadat di tengah jalan. Setelah selesai berdoa lagi bahwa segalanya telah berjalan lancar sesuai dengan keinginan kita dan ucapan terima kasih atas segala nikmat yang telah kita nikmati. Tidak lupa memohon agar di masa mendatang selalu diberi jalan terang. (Gw copy and paste tulisan ini dari buku "Petunjuk Doa Harian" jadi klo ada nyang salah, jangan complain ke gw tapi ke penulisnya...he...he..he)

Gue nggak komplain kok.... aku juga baca tuh di buku renungan harianku...... bedanya aku sambil ngopi n denger musik rohani.

Bacanya di tempat ibadah ato di tempat tidur....?

rais

dhidhie wrote:

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

demahend wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

Ya ini kok kayak pelajaran waktu gue sekolah minggu dulu seh...jangan-jangan Dhidhie calon pendeta...dosa enggak seh ML sama calon pendeta...becanda lho jangan marah ya Dhie...awwwwwwww :oops:

Engaakk..laah. Nyang penting sebelum melakukan berdoa dulu biar lancar segala urusannya dan ngga' ada onderdil yang ngadat di tengah jalan. Setelah selesai berdoa lagi bahwa segalanya telah berjalan lancar sesuai dengan keinginan kita dan ucapan terima kasih atas segala nikmat yang telah kita nikmati. Tidak lupa memohon agar di masa mendatang selalu diberi jalan terang. (Gw copy and paste tulisan ini dari buku "Petunjuk Doa Harian" jadi klo ada nyang salah, jangan complain ke gw tapi ke penulisnya...he...he..he)

Gue nggak komplain kok.... aku juga baca tuh di buku renungan harianku...... bedanya aku sambil ngopi n denger musik rohani.

Bacanya di tempat ibadah ato di tempat tidur....?

Masa gue baca di tempat ibadah sih.... itu lho... kopi. Iyah di Rumah lah...!

Gimana kalau kita ngopi bareng yuuk!

dhidhie

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

demahend wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

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Bacanya di tempat ibadah ato di tempat tidur....?

Masa gue baca di tempat ibadah sih.... itu lho... kopi. Iyah di Rumah lah...!

Gimana kalau kita ngopi bareng yuuk!

Sukanya kopi tubruk apa kopi instant, trus sama susu ato ngga'. Suka nyang manis apa yang pait...?

Matt

sweet... nice explanation dhie..thanks!!
indeed made me wanna take philo,lol

I wish, keep wishing could find the long-life phillia yet with the true passion of eros.
Teras and joys come along together... undividable
no tears without joys and no joys without tears
coz. no one would know joys without knowing the tears.

BTW, r u still studying?? grad school?? some arts major??

dhidhie wrote:

Matt wrote:

weew... we have a philisopher here,lol.
come on tell us more about agape, philia, paedros, and eros!!!

dhidhie wrote:

dreamland_boy wrote:

Not a BIG DEAL down here. But I think you must looking into yourself to differenciate between ADORE, ADMIRE, and REAL LOVE

Kaya kata Plato (BTW dia salah satu filosof yang gay), cinta itu ada 4 macam. Agape, Philia, Paedros, ama Eros (bukan eros djarot he..he..he..). Manusia jelas ngga' punya cinta Agape karena itu milik-Nya. Tapi gw punya 3 macem yang laen. Gue punya philia dan eros sama cowo'yang gue sayangi, dan gw punya paedros buat sohib-sohib gw. Philia itu kaya' cinta yang penuh affeksi(melibatkan perasaan), eros itu cinta yang penuh emosi (melibatkan gairah, desire dll), sedangkan kalo paedros itu rasa sayang tanpa desire dan tanpa sexual attractivenes.

According to my philosophy lecturer, "Agape" is the nature of God's love. He give His love in unconditional state. Whether we are a true follower or just an ignorant, He give the same amount of love to His "children". "Eros" is the nature of human love. It is intended to find the best which suits its purposes. It is always passionate, need immediate fulfillment, contain both like and dislike feeling. Physical attraction become the best example of this kind of love. "Philia" is the nature of long life relationship. The more the time move on, the more somebody realizes the value of "something under the face skin and the glorious body".It always takes a long time to grow up "the philia". Sometimes, somebody never found it at all even though he has searched it for the whole of life because the "eros" feeling shield his vision to find the "truth beauty" as we may called it "inner beauty". Finally, "Phaedros" is the nature of biological love. It's difficult to say what kind of love we feel to our family, relatives, siblings compare to the love we feel to the Lord, our friends, and our lover. But we just know that it is different and we can feel the differences. There are many kinds of love we may experience in our life. Love and tear are the companion of our life. Enjoy it and celebrate your feeling.

Anonymous

dhidhie wrote:

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

rais wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

demahend wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

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Bacanya di tempat ibadah ato di tempat tidur....?

Masa gue baca di tempat ibadah sih.... itu lho... kopi. Iyah di Rumah lah...!

Gimana kalau kita ngopi bareng yuuk!

Sukanya kopi tubruk apa kopi instant, trus sama susu ato ngga'. Suka nyang manis apa yang pait...?

Kopi apa aja deh.... yg penting kita bisa nikmatin tuh kopi dengan alunan music yg syahdu..... Duh.... romantic-nya.

dhidhie

Matt wrote:

sweet... nice explanation dhie..thanks!!
indeed made me wanna take philo,lol

I wish, keep wishing could find the long-life phillia yet with the true passion of eros.
Teras and joys come along together... undividable
no tears without joys and no joys without tears
coz. no one would know joys without knowing the tears.

BTW, r u still studying?? grad school?? some arts major??

You can't avoid the eros coz this is the first attraction you will feel to somebody. Just imagine you meet Chris O' Donell and Socrates for to first time. I guess that you will choose to have date with Chris rather than with Socrates. It's OK and it's natural. But at the a certain point in our life, when beauty is not ours, we also should realize that may be another person will abandon us as well. So try to find both eros and philia. May be you have to choose either coz it's really hard to have both. May be the person to whom we are falling in love now is just the perfect one for this moment, but who knows that the "less" perfect one is the most suitable person for us for the rest of our life. So keep our eyes open and be realistic. The unreasonable man persists in trying to adapt the world to himself, but the wise one just adjust the sail to fit with the wind.
BTW I am a post-grad student in engineering(..yuck..). I do my own study in philosophy(..yuck..) and literature(...yuck..) during my spare time for replacement of my date...hiik...hiik..hiik.

pilatme

dhidhie wrote:

According to my philosophy lecturer, "Agape" is the nature of God's love. He give His love in unconditional state. Whether we are a true follower or just an ignorant, He give the same amount of love to His "children". "Eros" is the nature of human love. It is intended to find the best which suits its purposes. It is always passionate, need immediate fulfillment, contain both like and dislike feeling. Physical attraction become the best example of this kind of love. "Philia" is the nature of long life relationship. The more the time move on, the more somebody realizes the value of "something under the face skin and the glorious body".It always takes a long time to grow up "the philia". Sometimes, somebody never found it at all even though he has searched it for the whole of life because the "eros" feeling shield his vision to find the "truth beauty" as we may called it "inner beauty". Finally, "Phaedros" is the nature of biological love. It's difficult to say what kind of love we feel to our family, relatives, siblings compare to the love we feel to the Lord, our friends, and our lover. But we just know that it is different and we can feel the differences. There are many kinds of love we may experience in our life. Love and tear are the companion of our life. Enjoy it and celebrate your feeling.

Sorry Khusus bagi yang Christian.
Itulah yang harus bisa dicapai oleh manusia seperti dikatakan "...hendaklah engkau kudus seperti Bapamu jg kudus adanya". Memang tidak akan mungkin dicapai tanpa bantuanNya.

dhidhie

pilatme wrote:

dhidhie wrote:

Sorry Khusus bagi yang Christian.
Itulah yang harus bisa dicapai oleh manusia seperti dikatakan "...hendaklah engkau kudus seperti Bapamu jg kudus adanya". Memang tidak akan mungkin dicapai tanpa bantuanNya.

Can You tell in which part I can find this word (Psalm, John, Matthew, etc..?)

CinTaPuCCiNo

RaKa JuGa Bi...TaPi raKA TdK Bisa Jadian dEngan 2 oRang Sekaligus (cowo dan cewe)....Tapi UntuK BerfanTAsi Bisa dengan 2-2x Nya KoK!
PokokNya Bisa NikMatin LAh
cUman Gak enak jadi Bi...Lbh enak G sejati Atau Straight Aja...SoalNya jadi bi sering BikIn pusing sendiri dengan Perasaan kita

axelo_21

aku juga bi. emang ngga gampang pada awalnya. tapi dengan prinsip air mengalir, nikmati saja sakit ini. nikmati saja bahagia ini.

bila hati tak jua memilih
jangan kau salahkan hati ini
karena ia punya bahasa
dan hanya kaupahami ketika ia mau berbisik padamu
bila kau sibuk berteriak
tentang penyangkalan
tentang pertentangan
sesungguhnya engkau tak pernah mendengarkan hatimuu yang gelisah

jadi..tanpa bermaksud membela diri, beda antara bisex dengan gay yang berkedok straight dengan punya GF. ngga sama diantara keduanya. kalo yang namanya kedok, pasti ada kepura-puraan di sana. tapi kalo bi, dia bisa bener2 suka ama keduanya. bener2 sayang. ngga bisa dipikir dengan logika memang.karena aku uda pernah nyoba.tapi ngga bisa. ya uda, jalanin aja.

June

ternyata berat juga jadi bi.

june nga ngerti dilema bi, jadi cuma bisa bilang...

jia you para pejuang2 cinta !

abxis

June wrote:

ternyata berat juga jadi bi.

june nga ngerti dilema bi, jadi cuma bisa bilang...

jia you para pejuang2 cinta !

mang june pure gay yah

June

abxis wrote:

June wrote:

ternyata berat juga jadi bi.

june nga ngerti dilema bi, jadi cuma bisa bilang...

jia you para pejuang2 cinta !

mang june pure gay yah

June risih deket2 cewe, menurut abx june tipe yg mana kalo gtu? 8)

abxis

June wrote:

abxis wrote:

June wrote:

ternyata berat juga jadi bi.

june nga ngerti dilema bi, jadi cuma bisa bilang...

jia you para pejuang2 cinta !

mang june pure gay yah

June risih deket2 cewe, menurut abx june tipe yg mana kalo gtu? 8)

emmm kalo deket2 abx rasana risih kaga pure gay kali yah seberapa risih???