Pernah ga hampir ketahuan orang tua/sodara ?

lavdminhoo

Pernah .. cuman bukan sama Krluarga. tapi sama temen sekelas. Temen lagi minjem hp gua, dan iseng" baca whatsapp. eeehh.. Ketawan Gua ngirim foto kaka kelas yg top di sekolah ke dia ( orang di whatsapp) trus gua nyangkal, bilang ke temen gua " Gua mau nyomblangin/bila g cakep atau enggak ke adenya dia ( orang di whatsapp) ". Fyuwwhh... legaa... langsung ._.

JackHororr

HiGh-JuMp! wrote: »

kalo gue sih pernah sekali ampir ketahuan ama kakak gue (ce). kebetulan waktu itu gue masi dudul, nggak ngerti cara "menghilangkan jejak" (maklum wkt itu masi smp).. nah ceritanya waktu itu kk gue lagi liat2 history di kompie, eh ktemu deh "hasil kenakalan".. terus dia langsung nanya itu apa, gue ngelak, gue bilang aja itu gua nggak sengaja buka hypertext dari email nyasar karena menarik, eh ternyata bokep gay... (padahal tentu aja gue sengaja.. :roll: ).. untungnya dia keliatannya percaya..

sampe sejauh ini sih belom pernah ampe ketahuan sapa2, kecuali ama kakak gue itu (ampir...).

sebenernya gue sendiri suka kebawa stress kepikiran ama diri gue yang begini.. kalo ada yang nonton "arisan", thu gue ama sakti mirip banget keadaan mentalnya... bedanya, gue bukan anak tunggal, tapi bungsu. bonyok gue masih lengkap dan gue masih smu. gue terus usaha buat ngilangin sifat gue yg ini (cuma gue nggak pake ke psikiater segala) tapi nyatanya gue selalu kalah ama badan gue ini. gue juga nggak bisa ampe ketahuan ama bonyok gue, karena gue 1-1nya anak co n bner2 dianggep bisa jadi penerus keluarga. bahkan ada 1 kata2nya si sakti (tora) yg bner2 pas: "mungkin nyokab gue bisa bunuh diri kalo tau gue gay"... tapi nyatanya kenyataan di film itu kan nyokabnya bisa ngerti. kalu gue? who knows..? sementara di lain pihak, temen2 bakalan dengan sedih bgt kalo ampe pada tau kalo gue gay. mungkin mereka nggak benci gue, tapi mereka pasti akan ngejauhin gue... jadi intinya, gue gay itu membawa beban mental yg sangat besar buat gue sendiri (Dan org2 di sekitar gue tentunya..). akhirnya sampe saat ini, gue hidup ibaratnya dengan 2 kepribadian.. saat gue sendiri, gue jadi gay, sedangkan saat ketemu ama org laen, gue jadi normal. gue menyimpan itu buat diri gue sendiri, sampe ada org lain yg bisa mensuport gue dari belakang, sehingga gue nggak ngangkut beban ini sendiri, tapi bisa gue share ke org lain... (masalahnya ampe sekarang belom ketemu orangnya... soalnya ampe saat ini no one knows that i'm a gay)

panjang ya ceritanya..?? hohoho maap deh..

Gue doain deh, semoga lu dapat temen ataupun boyfriend yang bisa share ke lu, karena gue juga ngerasa, kalau gak langsung cerita tuh kayak habis makan gak minum kali ya.. hehe. God bless you bro.

fadlifadlan

gw sih kayaknya kakak2 gw ada yg tau,
#kakak ke 1, gak ada angin gak ada hujan, di ruang kluarga, tiba2 dia ngomong kayak gini "kamu ini cowok tapi suka sama cowo!"
dia ngomong itu dengan nada membentak dan marah!
aku kaget banget, entah dia tau darimana gak ngerti, reaksiku kaget, gw diem beberapa menit. lalu tiba2 (karna mrasa gay dari sononya) gw sponntan marah2, aku jawab "jangan sembarang gomong!!"
(aku jawab kasar). baru kali ini gw ngomong kasar sama kakak paling tua, entah darimana gw bisa seberani itu, gw mrasa udah gay dari sononya, jadi gw marah klo ada yg megusik pribadi gw.
sejak saat itu kakak gw protek banget, gw gak boleh main sama anak2nya (dia takut, dikiranya nati gw sodomi).
sejak saat itu, aku udah gk respek lagi sama kakakku ini dan aku jaga jarak.

ommy

gw sih bukan pernah hampir kedapatan lagi, tpi adik sepupu gw sering singgung2 gw gay tpi ya gw candain aja, jdi tetap ama, lagian juga kalau mereka tau, masalah buat looooooo, hehehhe

Black_Tinker

ketahuan bokap 1x
ketahuan kakak 1x
ketahuan keluarga 1x
langsung dilupakan =.=

Black_Tinker

@anonymous iyaaa temen temen gua juga gitu, mereka wellcome banget tau gue gay dan jaga rahasia gue, mskipun kadang ada yg bocor, tapi bocornya ke sahabat gue jadi tak apalah

vickhay

gak aku kan dibilang orang lugu jadi gak ada yang perhatiin tingkah buruk ku V...

Curiousreader

HJKL wrote: »

RAIN wrote:

Ceritain donk, barangkali kalian pernah nyaris ketahuan ato dicurigai oleh orang-orang disekitarmu kalo elo gay

well well ... it's gonna be a long story, but i'll go ahead and start talking about it, knowing that y'all are good men to share a story with ...

The last time I was involved in a relationship with a guy was 2 years ago. I used to call him 'my Don ...' he was such a lovely and caring guy ... the most-perfect guy I've ever seen in my life. He was a med student like me too. He went to North Dakota University then transferred to Harvard Medical School. But nothing lasts forever. Unfortunately, he passed away like 2yrs ago. He was ill, due to the Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome that spreaded over the world that time, and he lived close to Canada (ND) which is the biggest epidemic area of the virus. We were still together when he left me. Yeah, he even said that he loves me when he's dying. But anyway, everything keeps going on till now even though I'm still feeling lonely. As a matter of fact, I've never been in a serious relationship again ever since.

I'm not really close to my family. My dad is an expatriate (I dunno where he is right now) and my mom is indonesian. They got divorced years ago, and I'm not close to both of them. I used to live with my mom anyway and I went to high school in Indonesia for couple years.
My mom and my family is kinda nosy. They don't respect in a matter called as privacy. She has a conservative thoughts of sexuality. I'm pretty sure she knows that I'm gay. And I didn't try to hide it anyway. She just pretends that I'm str8 and she doesn't wanna talk about it with me. Dammit.

One day, couple of months ago when I was in Indonesia, my mom found some Don's stuffs, and guess what, she burned all of his stuffs in front of me. What a fuck? It's actually definitely none of her business of me having a relationship with a guy, or having sex with guys? And she must be noticed that Don is a really loving person for me, and he died! he's gone! Dammit.

Since then, I feel really really disappointed with my Mom. I rarely talk to her. And most of my family/relatives know already that I'm gay. So what? Life is short! I'll do everything on my own.
Now I live back in the United States. I live on my own and far away from those fuckin things, and I'm pretty happy of my life, instead of feeling lonely. That sucks, really sucks.

kev

p.s. here's my lovely Don ...

Hiks2 @HJKL ceritanya sedih amat

Curiousreader

HJKL wrote: »

RAIN wrote:

Ceritain donk, barangkali kalian pernah nyaris ketahuan ato dicurigai oleh orang-orang disekitarmu kalo elo gay

well well ... it's gonna be a long story, but i'll go ahead and start talking about it, knowing that y'all are good men to share a story with ...

The last time I was involved in a relationship with a guy was 2 years ago. I used to call him 'my Don ...' he was such a lovely and caring guy ... the most-perfect guy I've ever seen in my life. He was a med student like me too. He went to North Dakota University then transferred to Harvard Medical School. But nothing lasts forever. Unfortunately, he passed away like 2yrs ago. He was ill, due to the Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome that spreaded over the world that time, and he lived close to Canada (ND) which is the biggest epidemic area of the virus. We were still together when he left me. Yeah, he even said that he loves me when he's dying. But anyway, everything keeps going on till now even though I'm still feeling lonely. As a matter of fact, I've never been in a serious relationship again ever since.

I'm not really close to my family. My dad is an expatriate (I dunno where he is right now) and my mom is indonesian. They got divorced years ago, and I'm not close to both of them. I used to live with my mom anyway and I went to high school in Indonesia for couple years.
My mom and my family is kinda nosy. They don't respect in a matter called as privacy. She has a conservative thoughts of sexuality. I'm pretty sure she knows that I'm gay. And I didn't try to hide it anyway. She just pretends that I'm str8 and she doesn't wanna talk about it with me. Dammit.

One day, couple of months ago when I was in Indonesia, my mom found some Don's stuffs, and guess what, she burned all of his stuffs in front of me. What a fuck? It's actually definitely none of her business of me having a relationship with a guy, or having sex with guys? And she must be noticed that Don is a really loving person for me, and he died! he's gone! Dammit.

Since then, I feel really really disappointed with my Mom. I rarely talk to her. And most of my family/relatives know already that I'm gay. So what? Life is short! I'll do everything on my own.
Now I live back in the United States. I live on my own and far away from those fuckin things, and I'm pretty happy of my life, instead of feeling lonely. That sucks, really sucks.

kev

p.s. here's my lovely Don ...

Hiks2 @HJKL ceritanya sedih amat

boljugg

ron89 wrote: »

Kalo gw ga ke-gep sih tapi nge-gep-in org. SMS temen yg isinya sama pacar dia, gw gep-in sama temen gw yg str8. Udah habis itu kita biasa aja tapi tetep di belakang dia ngomongin dia macem2.

Untung 22nya ga tau kalo gw sakit jg huft.

tp gw tau kok...

@licious wrote: »

Hanya dia dari semua orang yang gw kenal tau klo gw gay. (Kecuali gay gay yang emang udah pernah gw tidurin)

euww...
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goyescas

Pengalaman terbaru gue "hampir ketahuan"

Lokasi/ motiv pesta keluarga nun di plosok sumatra, skalian hunting foto.

Ktemu kluarga jauh....., orang deso, 50an ; ngobras trus sampe ke : kok belum kawin, kan sdh siapppp semua ??, sampeyan "gak suka betina yo"........gubrakkkk "hampir ketahuan" nihhh..

Padahal eike sdh bertampilan macho, tanpa aksesory, tangan gak lentik, gak pecicilan..... #:-S

Ranmaru

Ga tau deh, tapi dari gelagatnya orang rumah udah pada curiga

wel_c_ome

Ara wrote: »

RAIN wrote:

Ceritain donk, barangkali kalian pernah nyaris ketahuan ato dicurigai oleh orang-orang disekitarmu kalo elo gay

Kalo gue emang ketauan ama sepupu. Ceritanya gini dan baru terjadi: hp gue kebuka ama dia dan disitu ada video gue lagi gituan deh sama si doi. Awalnya tuh hp sempat gw rebut tapi sepupu gw maksa dan ngerayu dengan cara kasih tahu rahasia dia sendiri. Akhirnya kita berdua saling terbuka dan janji jaga rahasia masing-masing.

wow ada videonya..?
Share dong hahahay.. (bcandarius)

wel_c_ome

Farava wrote: »

Kalo gua udah dua kali dan yang terakhir kali paling parah. Gua minjem BB abang gua buat buka akun facebook gua yang isinya cowok semua dengan status-status yang gua post. Pas lagi enak online di BB, gua ngantuk berat tiba-tiba. Alhasil ketiduran dan lupa logout tu fb. Kejadiannya pas bulan Ramadhan kemaren. Nah, malem-malemnya bokap tiba-tiba dengan nada yang keras ngebangunin gua dari tidur. Dan diintrogasilah gua dengan bokap, nyokap dan abang gua. Dalem hati (mampus lupa logout fb) Udah keringet dingin banget dan engga tau harus gimana kalo emang gua ketahuan that I'm gay. Gua bersihkeras untuk nyangkal ibarat maling engga mau ngaku!

Suddenly, nyokap meluk gua dan nangis. Nyokap bilang ke gua "Kenapa kamu kaya gini? Tolong jangan kecewain mama.. Kamu masih muda, ganteng, bla bla bla." Gua dengan muka yang melas pun tetep nyangkal kalo gua engga seperti yang mereka tuduh.
Dan bokap sempet mau ngetes darah gua apakah gua pernah ml dengan cowok. Sedikit cemas juga, tapi untungnya engga jadi tes darah sampe sekarang. Dan lagipula gua belom pernah ml dengan siapapun. Dan sampai sekarang pun gua sadar mereka masih mencurigai gua kalo gua itu gay.
Dan gua akan lebih waspada dan berhati-hati lagi, meskipun cepat atau lambat gua tau waktu akan membongkar semuanya ke mereka.

That's my story.

So Sweet and Sad

[Deleted User]

Baru tau aku,, kalo dari tes darah bisa ketauan kita pernah ml ama cowo,, hummm,, :>