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WAJAH KITA DALAM CERMIN...

edited November 2008 in BoyzRoom
UNTUK KITA RENUNGKAN.....


Isn't it funny... ?



Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men are so busy with their appearance, spending hours and hours in the fitness centre to boost their muscles mass and finally look like a thousand clone of Arnold Schwarzenegger :-), as if it compensates the lack of confidence or just to confirm their uncertainty of their own masculinity, when they have so many talents and inner beauty to be discovered?


Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men try to act and behave as straight as possible, they do like masculine guys only, they hate sissy boys and feminine guys, while the fullness of masculinity can only be seen by the presence of femininity? Isn ' t it true that the man who hate gays the most is often a latent homosexual himself, and the man who hates femininity tend to be the feminine himself?

Isn ' t it funny that their 'Adonis complex' gives them a privilege to jump to the glittering world of promiscuity and party's, where they can freely explore the dark side of human nature: the world of hedonism, narcissism and exhibitionism, and when the time of self indulging comes, they can chose and pick someone up and making love all night long till dawn, only to repeat the same pattern again and again for the rest of their life?



Isn ' t it funny that these are what matters in the gay scenes, where appearances are tend to be the rules of attraction and be a decision maker, where supply meets demand, where personalities and characters are replaced by appearances, silly stereo-types in a meat-market monopoly, where the only fulfilment is finally just a 5 seconds orgasm?



Isn ' t it funny that sex is often the best remedy to kill the pain of loneliness, caused by the absence of true companion, or otherwise: to kill the pain of commitment, caused by the absence of true sexual pleasures?

Isn ' t it funny that no matter how true it is, I am just one of them, as I love good looking guy with brains and looks, no matter how cynical I am! It takes time and courage to admit that such things are normal (yet optional!), just as good as being critical, just as bad as being judgemental.

Yet I believe that every man in here is unique and has his own character and personality. Some genuine people do dare to take off their mask and be dif ferent. __._,_.___

it,s our world! mau gimana lagi. apa harapan tulisan ini?
change the gay atitude?
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    mang baru sadar yah

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    Makanya banyak postingan yg hilang.... 8) 8) 8)
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  • abxis wrote:
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    mang baru sadar yah

    Gak, udah lama tahu koq kalau server-nya lagi bermasalah....
    Makanya banyak postingan yg hilang.... 8) 8) 8)
    udah tau kok msh kaget.
  • abxis wrote:
    8) KAYAKNYA DULU UDAH PERNAH DIREPLY DEH.... DUH, INI KAN GARA2 KERUSAKAN SERVER....SAMPAI KAPAN YA POSTING2NYA BISA PULIH...??? 8) 8) 8)
    mang baru sadar yah

    Gak, udah lama tahu koq kalau server-nya lagi bermasalah....
    Makanya banyak postingan yg hilang.... 8) 8) 8)
    udah tau kok msh kaget.
  • abxis wrote:
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    mang baru sadar yah

    Gak, udah lama tahu koq kalau server-nya lagi bermasalah....
    Makanya banyak postingan yg hilang.... 8) 8) 8)
    udah tau kok msh kaget.

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  • dony75 wrote:
    UNTUK KITA RENUNGKAN.....


    Isn't it funny... ?



    Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men are so busy with their appearance, spending hours and hours in the fitness centre to boost their muscles mass and finally look like a thousand clone of Arnold Schwarzenegger :-), as if it compensates the lack of confidence or just to confirm their uncertainty of their own masculinity, when they have so many talents and inner beauty to be discovered?


    Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men try to act and behave as straight as possible, they do like masculine guys only, they hate sissy boys and feminine guys, while the fullness of masculinity can only be seen by the presence of femininity? Isn ' t it true that the man who hate gays the most is often a latent homosexual himself, and the man who hates femininity tend to be the feminine himself?

    Isn ' t it funny that their 'Adonis complex' gives them a privilege to jump to the glittering world of promiscuity and party's, where they can freely explore the dark side of human nature: the world of hedonism, narcissism and exhibitionism, and when the time of self indulging comes, they can chose and pick someone up and making love all night long till dawn, only to repeat the same pattern again and again for the rest of their life?



    Isn ' t it funny that these are what matters in the gay scenes, where appearances are tend to be the rules of attraction and be a decision maker, where supply meets demand, where personalities and characters are replaced by appearances, silly stereo-types in a meat-market monopoly, where the only fulfilment is finally just a 5 seconds orgasm?



    Isn ' t it funny that sex is often the best remedy to kill the pain of loneliness, caused by the absence of true companion, or otherwise: to kill the pain of commitment, caused by the absence of true sexual pleasures?

    Isn ' t it funny that no matter how true it is, I am just one of them, as I love good looking guy with brains and looks, no matter how cynical I am! It takes time and courage to admit that such things are normal (yet optional!), just as good as being critical, just as bad as being judgemental.

    Yet I believe that every man in here is unique and has his own character and personality. Some genuine people do dare to take off their mask and be dif ferent. __._,_.___

    it,s our world! mau gimana lagi. apa harapan tulisan ini?
    change the gay atitude?
  • dony75 wrote:
    UNTUK KITA RENUNGKAN.....


    Isn't it funny... ?



    Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men are so busy with their appearance, spending hours and hours in the fitness centre to boost their muscles mass and finally look like a thousand clone of Arnold Schwarzenegger :-), as if it compensates the lack of confidence or just to confirm their uncertainty of their own masculinity, when they have so many talents and inner beauty to be discovered?


    Isn ' t it funny that most of gay men try to act and behave as straight as possible, they do like masculine guys only, they hate sissy boys and feminine guys, while the fullness of masculinity can only be seen by the presence of femininity? Isn ' t it true that the man who hate gays the most is often a latent homosexual himself, and the man who hates femininity tend to be the feminine himself?

    Isn ' t it funny that their 'Adonis complex' gives them a privilege to jump to the glittering world of promiscuity and party's, where they can freely explore the dark side of human nature: the world of hedonism, narcissism and exhibitionism, and when the time of self indulging comes, they can chose and pick someone up and making love all night long till dawn, only to repeat the same pattern again and again for the rest of their life?



    Isn ' t it funny that these are what matters in the gay scenes, where appearances are tend to be the rules of attraction and be a decision maker, where supply meets demand, where personalities and characters are replaced by appearances, silly stereo-types in a meat-market monopoly, where the only fulfilment is finally just a 5 seconds orgasm?



    Isn ' t it funny that sex is often the best remedy to kill the pain of loneliness, caused by the absence of true companion, or otherwise: to kill the pain of commitment, caused by the absence of true sexual pleasures?

    Isn ' t it funny that no matter how true it is, I am just one of them, as I love good looking guy with brains and looks, no matter how cynical I am! It takes time and courage to admit that such things are normal (yet optional!), just as good as being critical, just as bad as being judgemental.

    Yet I believe that every man in here is unique and has his own character and personality. Some genuine people do dare to take off their mask and be dif ferent. __._,_.___

    it,s our world! mau gimana lagi. apa harapan tulisan ini?
    change the gay atitude?
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