Forgiveness…..the Pain of Love
Have you ever experienced putting yourself into some sort of relationship that you thought would last for a very long time? Giving all your effort, time and love for someone who seemed everything to you? But suddenly in the middle of love, in the happiness and good times, both of you face the heartaches and miseries of being together that every couple encounters. Until the both of you decides to finally end the relationship. Now the big question enters: “is it possible for ex lovers to eventually become friends after a miserable breakup?”
It is in the nature of people even young ones to experience the magical feeling of being in love. A lot of us at an early age have already gotten in a relationship, sharing something special and somehow intimate moments with someone. They tend to try out risking thing for happiness and self contentment.
There are so many kinds of love stories; every one has its own uniqueness and individuality. Some relationships start in friendship and eventually develops into far beyond friendship, while others begins with so -called” love at first sight” or physical attraction. Being in love and be loved in return is certainly a wonderful and comforting feeling; this priceless shared moments wit your significant someone: hearing your partner saying “ I love you”, holding hands, receiving txt sweet text messages, endless phone call conversation, simply heart warming. But how long would it last? Forever?
As we all know, there’s neither such a perfect relationship nor love. Everyone has its up and downs. People tend to experience pain in the relationship when misunderstanding due to jealousy, selfishness, and lack of trust occur. Even though unintentionally, the result was they hurt the feelings of their love ones. But indeed, it’s natural for a boy girlfriend relationship to go through a stage where avoid less arguments occur. But what if these disagreements never stop? When it happens all the time every single day of the relationship? Is it worth the pain and suffering? Can the both of you withstand these circumstances? Will the relationship still work after all? Or is this the time to finally split up?
When you and your partner had to break up, it’s really painful, isn’t it? Tears fall and sadness feels your heart specially when you remember the times you’ve shared with the person, realizing that it can never happened again. It is really remorseful experience to say goodbye to someone whom you loved so much. But come to think of it, why settle hurting your self, thinking of the agonizing break up all the time? It is natural to be sad for maybe a couple of days or even a week, let it out! Cry! Get drunk! But do u want to do this for a long time? Aren’t you getting tired of being depressed? Maybe days can be enough to weigh your feelings. By then, you should have realized what you really wanted to do; if you still want to work the relationship out or if you already have decided to move on. Have a life! Maybe things just weren’t meant to be.
After what had happened to the relationship, do you think you and your ex can become friends in the end?
Alandra
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