KETIKA GAY MEMASUKI USIA PANIC

lion_heart

pernah ditany kpn kmu nikah? mana cew kmu? atw ditanya cew yg kmu pacari, kpn gw dlamar dsb..dsb,.
biasany smua pertnyaan itu muncul ktika pria menginjak usia2 panic/ 25+,.dan bnyak dr kita yg ingin menghindari pertnyaan2 itu,TAPI MUSTAHIL kan..,tdk heran bnyak Pria gay yg brada dalam usia2 tsb mengalami stres ,.palagi kalau ortu sudah menuntut qta untuk segera puny keluarga,.lalu apa kita harus mengatakan alasn kita tdk brni/g siap nikah krna kita gay?,sudah siapkah kita menanggung konskwensinya,dan seberapa besar presentasi untung ruginya? mari kita kupas secara tajam ,stajam ...

Hanz

Kemudian saya berkata...

"Maap saya tidak tertarik untuk cari jodoh.. yang penting Job saya.. terserah apa kata orang dech"

vendi74

lion_heart wrote:

pernah ditany kpn kmu nikah? mana cew kmu? atw ditanya cew yg kmu pacari, kpn gw dlamar dsb..dsb,.
biasany smua pertnyaan itu muncul ktika pria menginjak usia2 panic/ 25+,.dan bnyak dr kita yg ingin menghindari pertnyaan2 itu,TAPI MUSTAHIL kan..,tdk heran bnyak Pria gay yg brada dalam usia2 tsb mengalami stres ,.palagi kalau ortu sudah menuntut qta untuk segera puny keluarga,.lalu apa kita harus mengatakan alasn kita tdk brni/g siap nikah krna kita gay?,sudah siapkah kita menanggung konskwensinya,dan seberapa besar presentasi untung ruginya? mari kita kupas secara tajam ,stajam ...

apapun yang terjadi, jangan lupa bernafas ya nak.. cuma itu saran gue.

jupiter

salam kenal aja yah

RECTORY

Well, I'm almost 28 yo, and I came out to my parents when I was 17 yo. I never regret the decision so yes, i am ready for the consequences involve.

For those who's still closeted ( not come out yet ) maybe you could say that you want to concentrate on your career. Or better yet, say that you're not ready to get married yet.
Or say that you don't want to get married coz you don't want to get tied down and want to live your life with as much freedom as you could possibly have. ( my older sister said that ).

Shank

RECTORY wrote:

Well, I'm almost 28 yo, and I came out to my parents when I was 17 yo. I never regret the decision so yes, i am ready for the consequences involve.

For those who's still closeted ( not come out yet ) maybe you could say that you want to concentrate on your career. Or better yet, say that you're not ready to get married yet.
Or say that you don't want to get married coz you don't want to get tied down and want to live your life with as much freedom as you could possibly have. ( my older sister said that ).

walah..... Bener juga....di kota" gede kan dah gak HERAN, tapi kalo hidup di kampung....??? Jadi Omongan SEkelurahaan deh.....wakakkakak......., secara di kampung ceweknya biz lulus SMP aj dah pada NIKAH...tp klo cowok c emang lebih tua'an nikah nya....hehehhe....
tapi Kita masih pengen menikah kan...? jd ya TAWAKKAL aj sambil mencari....nanti pasti diketemuin jodohnya deh!

RECTORY

Well, I came from a small town, not a big city. But of course, you don't have to give any reason if you don't want to get married.After all, it's ur life, not theirs.

jojodeh

kalo jojo mau merantau yang jauh......trus kan waktu ortu nanya " kapan kawin ??"

jojo jawab " mak, jojo lagi banyak kerjaan, ntar kasihan istrinya ditinggal terus, jojo sibuk banget"...hehehehe....

kalo mandek di kampung terus, bisa dijodohin ma anak pak Rustam temennya Bapak jojo..bisa gawat kalo nikah ama Ranti....

solusinya jojo memutuskan menetap deh di negri orang, siapa tau aja ketemu jodoh disana...

Nocturnal

RECTORY wrote:

Well, I'm almost 28 yo, and I came out to my parents when I was 17 yo. I never regret the decision so yes, i am ready for the consequences involve.

For those who's still closeted ( not come out yet ) maybe you could say that you want to concentrate on your career. Or better yet, say that you're not ready to get married yet.
Or say that you don't want to get married coz you don't want to get tied down and want to live your life with as much freedom as you could possibly have. ( my older sister said that ).

Me too, bbrp tahun lagi usia gw bakal masuk kepala 3

Gw udah ga ambil pusing apa kata orang..

Gay or not, stidaknya gw menghasilkan PRESTASI, gw punya wujud hasil kerja keras gw yang bisa dibanggakan, n gw masih berprinsip untuk membantu siapapun smampu gw, loyal dan setia sama 1 pasangan,mnahan nafsu gw n berbuat POSITIF

Banyak hal lain yg mesti dipikirkan, daripada melulu mikirin gay things, married things, etc. emang ga mudah, tapi we must be strong..

Satu lagi, slalu berdoa kpada Tuhan untuk diberi jalan terbaik...
Mau merid ato ga, still gay or maybe have some miracle 2 like woman..??
haha ...yang penting Terbaik dan di-ridhoi oleh-Nya

hansgay

enak ya kalo tinggal di lingkungan yang open minded... ga perlu nutup2in...

Esa Mulyana

hansgay wrote:

enak ya kalo tinggal di lingkungan yang open minded... ga perlu nutup2in...

Itu juga tergantung kesiapan dirimu... :roll:
Percuma di lingkungan open-minded kalau kau emang malu/takut untuk out...

lion_heart wrote:

pernah ditany kpn kmu nikah? mana cew kmu? atw ditanya cew yg kmu pacari, kpn gw dlamar dsb..dsb,.
biasany smua pertnyaan itu muncul ktika pria menginjak usia2 panic/ 25+,.dan bnyak dr kita yg ingin menghindari pertnyaan2 itu,TAPI MUSTAHIL kan..,tdk heran bnyak Pria gay yg brada dalam usia2 tsb mengalami stres ,.palagi kalau ortu sudah menuntut qta untuk segera puny keluarga,.lalu apa kita harus mengatakan alasn kita tdk brni/g siap nikah krna kita gay?,sudah siapkah kita menanggung konskwensinya,dan seberapa besar presentasi untung ruginya? mari kita kupas secara tajam ,stajam ...

Makanya out..... :roll:

Saya ditanya "kapan nikah" ma sepupu (sepupu saya sebagian besar dah married),dan saya memberikan foto 2 cowok lagi ciuman sebagai jawaban.
"Pantes ga pernah bawa cewek" kata sepupu saya lagi.

RECTORY

Saya ditanya "kapan nikah" ma sepupu (sepupu saya sebagian besar dah married),dan saya memberikan foto 2 cowok lagi ciuman sebagai jawaban.
"Pantes ga pernah bawa cewek" kata sepupu saya lagi. [/b][/quote]

Good answer!!

XdaII

RECTORY wrote:

Well, I'm almost 28 yo, and I came out to my parents when I was 17 yo. I never regret the decision so yes, i am ready for the consequences involve.

For those who's still closeted ( not come out yet ) maybe you could say that you want to concentrate on your career. Or better yet, say that you're not ready to get married yet.
Or say that you don't want to get married coz you don't want to get tied down and want to live your life with as much freedom as you could possibly have. ( my older sister said that ).

Great answer, pal

XdaII

RECTORY wrote:

Saya ditanya "kapan nikah" ma sepupu (sepupu saya sebagian besar dah married),dan saya memberikan foto 2 cowok lagi ciuman sebagai jawaban.
"Pantes ga pernah bawa cewek" kata sepupu saya lagi. [/b]

Good answer!![/quote]

Wakakakakaakaak...sumpah yang ini komen nya lucu

mamzelle roxane

Nocturnal wrote:

RECTORY wrote:

Well, I'm almost 28 yo, and I came out to my parents when I was 17 yo. I never regret the decision so yes, i am ready for the consequences involve.

For those who's still closeted ( not come out yet ) maybe you could say that you want to concentrate on your career. Or better yet, say that you're not ready to get married yet.
Or say that you don't want to get married coz you don't want to get tied down and want to live your life with as much freedom as you could possibly have. ( my older sister said that ).

Me too, bbrp tahun lagi usia gw bakal masuk kepala 3

Gw udah ga ambil pusing apa kata orang..

Gay or not, stidaknya gw menghasilkan PRESTASI, gw punya wujud hasil kerja keras gw yang bisa dibanggakan, n gw masih berprinsip untuk membantu siapapun smampu gw, loyal dan setia sama 1 pasangan,mnahan nafsu gw n berbuat POSITIF

Banyak hal lain yg mesti dipikirkan, daripada melulu mikirin gay things, married things, etc. emang ga mudah, tapi we must be strong..

Satu lagi, slalu berdoa kpada Tuhan untuk diberi jalan terbaik...
Mau merid ato ga, still gay or maybe have some miracle 2 like woman..??
haha ...yang penting Terbaik dan di-ridhoi oleh-Nya

Nocturnal keren.

XdaII

lion_heart wrote:

pernah ditany kpn kmu nikah? mana cew kmu? atw ditanya cew yg kmu pacari, kpn gw dlamar dsb..dsb,.

Excuse me, I'am sorry i'am a gay, i will marriage with guy
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